2006-10-23 13:16:04 · 7 answers · asked by jessica h 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I want to have my own child.
2006-10-23 13:20:53 · update #1
Yes I am married. I am also a christain. I guess I should have mentioned that!LOL!
2006-10-23 13:36:17 · update #2
It is hard to learn patience. We get so caught up in our own time tables and plans that we want to rush right into an area that we are not actually ready for - or that we could do better with if we just waited.
The important thing to remember is none of us every got anything while we stood there tapping our toe (and a watched pot never boils). Try to really enjoy your life as it is. When I got married I was so looking forward to just US time, but we came home from the honeymoon pregnant. I was so upset and so scared - and now I have to wait until my kids are grown until we can just be a couple again. You know - go out to dinner, go on a proper vacation (one where I am away from my job as mom) or just read a whole novel or watch an entire movie.
I am not complaining, I am saying don't squander the time you have now. The next phase of your life will come soon enough and things will never be the same again.
In the meantime, if you really want to move forward on the baby plan - try peaceful intention and visualization. Be still for 3-5 mins a couple times a day and see yourself happy and fulfilled and see your family as you wish it to be. That sends the right message to the powers that be - sometimes that is all you can do.
Peace!
2006-10-23 13:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All good things are worth waiting for and patience is a virtue.
Seriously, Are you married. If not stop trying.
There are several ways to have a baby. Several natural methods that can assist you and are taught by the church. There are also several ways medicine can help have you looked into this.
Some people can't have kids. Adoption is a great way to experience kids. You save a kid from a hardship of growing up in a home and you get a healthy kid from the start to love.
Good luck
2006-10-23 20:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we want something very badly, it seems to take forever for it to happen.
When we are dreading an event, it seems to come to soon.
When we submit ourselves to Gods will and leave our own at his doorstep so to speak, we learn that all things will happen in Gods timing and not our own.
From watching some of my own friends go through your very own circumstance, all the doctor visits and such all seemed unneeded after years and years of trying and trying.
It seemed that as they stopped trying and "gave up" they all had children. None of them were "young" parents, all were over 30 when the blessed events happened. Two of them were told that they would not have children before they "gave up" and lo and behold God had other ideas and they both have two children now.
My other set of friends gave up on doctors and clinics on their own and looked into adoption and while waiting for the paperwork to go through on the adoption process found out they were pregnant.
The key here is they had all "given up" and RELAXED and while relaxed, they were blessed with a pregnancy and child.
Sometimes patience isnt what needs to be learned, its to relax and let what will be, be.
2006-10-23 20:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be a simple biological reason why you can't get pregnant. If you have been trying to get pregnant for a year, or if you are over 30 and have been trying for six months, you should go see your doctor. You might have a cyst or some scar tissue that can be corrected.
Don't let anyone guilt you into believing that God doesn't want you to have a baby.
2006-10-23 20:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jim L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have patience you must practice patience and if you pray the Lord will multiply the times when you can be patient
2006-10-23 21:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by Midge 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard, but if you really want a child of your own, then you must wait until God sees that it is time.
God Bless you
2006-10-23 20:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by Stephen B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adopt. Our world is already overcrowded.
2006-10-23 20:18:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋