right where do i start, im an attractive intellegent 24 year old girl with a good sense of humour, im deep and caring and not at all clingy or dependant yet i cant get a man to commit to me, they seem to be interested in me physically but when it comes down to even getting a guy to be with me i always seem to get the "im not ready for a relationship or i like u but "kinda answers sometimes i think maybe im too deep or too intellegent that i make them feel inferior or something, because it seems to me that men just want a bimbo who looks good but has no opinions on anything so they can feel dominant.....can u help figure out why im still single?
2006-10-23 13:12:07 · 20 answers · asked by parisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Our society has changed in recent years. Many men are leery of committing, especially since most men can get sex today without getting married. My suggestion is: don't rush it. Keep an open mind and a sharp eye. Most importantly, don't compromise on your standards. Committment isn't a horse race. When the time is right, and when the man is right, things will come together for you.
2006-10-23 13:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by nbsandiego 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. Go to places where other intellectual men may be. Bookstores, art galleries, museums. Maybe you're looking only at physically attractive guys. There's some trustworthy dating sites online you may want to check out (yahoo personals for ex.). Take some classes somewhere. Join a book club or better yet, start one yourself and invite some interesting men to join.
2006-10-23 13:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by Nose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These days a lot of men don't commit to a relationship until they're in their 30s. Also, it sounds as if you are pushing for a commitment since you say they give you excuses. Back off, have fun, and the right one will eventually come along.
2006-10-23 13:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are dating boys. After a time guys get tired of the partying life and the dating game, but it isn't over until it's over. You need to stop dating boys and find someone who has left childish things behind. And the first step is to separate the men from the boys before you invest time into them.
2006-10-23 13:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason that u r single is because we`ve never had the opportunity to get in contact with each other before u wrote your question on this site.I`m very glad i can answer u so now u can write back to me and we might develop a mutual understanding for one another which is based on our both respect ,love and true faith that this was destined to happen for you and me .
write me an email and get to know me,then u`ll notice i am sincere.
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2006-10-23 13:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by nomoremisterniceguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to tie yourself down with a relationship right now? Sweetie, there is plenty of time for that. Just enjoy yourself, work hard, save your money, go out with lots of hunks, go back packing throughout Europe, just do lots of exciting things. Believe me when I tell you...when you're older and married, you're going look back on those times and wish you could have them again.
2006-10-23 13:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am 25 and looking for Girls like you.
If you are attractive and intelligent, perhaps guys think you may not be stable.Why don't you try dating educated guys and see how things go.
Probably you are dating the muscly empty headed guys.
Change your gear and tell me the result.
2006-10-23 13:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause the thing is, is that guys are dumb. im not being stupid or passive aggressive. girls a provingly smarter, nicer, and BETTER than guys just because of a better ethic of life.
u dont need to guy, but if u want one, dont aim for the hotties, they're dumbest
2006-10-23 13:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by dramateen23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how i feel sometimes. This is my best friend's advice which i'm also giving it to you. Like me, you are looking too hard. Do'nt look for it and it will come to you.(We'll see if it happens!!)
2006-10-23 13:16:18 · answer #9 · answered by Christine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably looking for men in the wrong places.
2006-10-23 13:14:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋