Have you ever been with a married man? If so why?
2006-10-23 13:03:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. I fell head over heels in love and there was no way of avoiding him since we worked together. In the end, that powerful attraction simply became too strong for me/us to resist, and we had an affair for 3½ years.
Was it right? No, of course not. Was it fantastic in spite of being wrong? Yes, unfortunately. We were both very real about what we were getting ourselves into, there were no illusions about it, and it was an incredible relationship. I have to honestly say that I don't regret it, no matter how awful that may sound.
Would I recommend it, though? No. Vows are betrayed, promises broken, trust damaged, and you really do have to be aware of that. Those are aspects of my actions that I'm not proud of, and it's highly unlikely that I'd ever do it again.
2006-10-23 13:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anna S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never been with a married man. I almost was and let me tell you, i tried to imagine i was in the wifes shoes. Would i want my husband to do this to me? Noway. Let me tell you, by stopping it was the greastest thing i ever did. This guy ended up having the up-most greatest respect for me. I could not ask for anything more. I was attracted to him, but i just could not do it. I also have respect for him also.
2006-10-23 13:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, he was engaged. I knew he was engaged and I still went for it. We worked together for a long period of time and there was ALWAYS sexual tension between us. So, we just went for it. We never discussed it after that, but we are still friends. If I could take it back I would because I know what it is like to be cheated on, but I don't have regrets. I know it doesn't make sense...but yeah...that's that!
2006-10-23 13:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by morggiepie20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and I never would be as long as I knew he was married and if he lied I would leave him as soon as I found out. Marriage means something to me and I would never do anything to break one up and I would never treat my sisters like that. A man who cheats aint worth havin nohow.
2006-10-23 13:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-10-23 13:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes lots of them.At he time I dated only men that were involved already because I got fed up with me lying and cheating.This way I know about the other woman up front and I didn't want to be bothered all the time.
2006-10-23 13:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by shireebody 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. His wife was in the hospital. She had been in a bad accident and they hadn't been together for a long time. She was never going to get better. No excuse, but it is my story. I only saw him once.
2006-10-23 13:11:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No way...I had the opportunity once (someone actually tried to set us up, if you can imagine), and the thought made me sick. I have one rule about dating...I never mess around with another woman's husband.
2006-10-23 13:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband (when we were still married). I never do to others what I don't want done to me.
2006-10-23 13:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by Debbi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. My husband.
2006-10-23 13:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by pat z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋