theres a guy that i dated once then broke up with him, then he asked me out again and i said yes! well now i dont wanna date him anymore but i dont wanna hurt him once again by breaking up with him AGAIN! how can i make him break up with me first?
2006-10-23 13:02:28 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Grow a backbone and tell him yourself - why make the poor guy jump through more hoops so you can take the easy way out.
2006-10-23 13:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wash hair or body for a week and when he comes to get you for a date.... well, just say he won't ask again. Especially if you black out some of your teeth. Good luck. I was a chicken too when I was young and dating!!!!! I often thought about doing what I just wrote, but didn't have the nerve to do that either. Chicken lil'. Really just be honest with him. I have found if you say no the first time it gets easier and easier.. go ahead, you can do it...If I could, being a big chicken, then you can.
2006-10-23 13:11:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be mature and explain to him how you feel. Honesty now is better than letting it drag on or manipulating him into breaking up with you. (Which is also very immature.)
Make sure that once this is done, no matter how you do it, that you don't let yourself get drawn into this again. It's not fair to you or him!
2006-10-23 13:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by inkyfingers1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey......Be honest, it builds character and you'll be stronger knowing to faced your fear and overcame it. Tell him the truth that you really don't have the feelings you thought you did. He'll be upset at first. But then will accept it by agreeing with you.
2006-10-23 13:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by iamME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probly just tell him you dont want to be with him.. I know its hard but it is better off that way...If you cant tell him just avoid him for a couple days and he will get the point
2006-10-23 13:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by lacye3406 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it... don't be scared, i mean if your try to make hime break up with you it's going to take a while, so if you want out now then just break up.
2006-10-23 13:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by Blake S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you think he is a great friend but don't really like all this dating with him.
2006-10-23 13:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow how old are you? Just let him go. The longer you keep playing this act the more hurt the boy will be. Come on now grow up please.
2006-10-23 13:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by Drea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww well you can start acting diffrent.Like someone thats not yourself.make him think you've changed but when he breaks up with you juss change back!simple as 1-2-3! LoL
2006-10-23 13:05:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Show some spine, and tell him you what you just told 4 million total strangers.
2006-10-23 13:04:51 · answer #10 · answered by George Curious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋