i dont know why i agreed. but i dont like the idea. at all. and i dont know how to tell him that i changed my mind. its hard. weve been together for a while. and for him to be like i want a break. its kinda depressing. :( he says that we should see other people. but i dont think i can. :[ what should i say to him??!!
2006-10-23 13:02:05 · 7 answers · asked by Kattizzle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he wants to see other people, he should stop seeing you. Hes obviously unhappy in the relationship, and probably doesn't have the courage to break up with you (or since youve been together awhile he is afraid of change). Break up with him, let him play around, and see what happens from there. Don't sit around and wait for him though, live your own life.
2006-10-23 13:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by bumbleleigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how long you've been together, what kind of commitment you've had or how old you are. Basically, we can only control ourselves. If your boyfriend is wanting to see other people, he's not ready to commit.
Your discomfort, sadness, and maybe even fear is normal and is part of the growth process of discovering yourself and in moving on. Concentrate on you, on meeting new people and on being happy. Don't feel you have to date someone else immediately just because he says he wants to. He is doing something for himself. You do something for YOURSELF. What works for you and feels right and comfortable to you?
If you've had a relationship of some length and some sort of spoken commitment, there is no reason you can't tell him that you're willing to give him some time but put a limit on it.
2006-10-23 13:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by Karen S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately he's not feelin you the way he use too. Take this as an opportunity to see what out there for you. Keep yourself occupied with hangin out with friends and family . Don't agree so quickly next time. And if you want him back, then do the same, he'll either take notice or move. Either way it's better for you .
2006-10-23 13:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by Hot one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say nothing or he will think you are clingy. He wants to date others so there's not a thing you can do about it. Keep your pride and see others and don't wait around for him.
2006-10-23 13:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really is nothing you CAN say to him. He wanted to end the relationship with you and did. *Hint< that's what "I think we should see other people" means.
2006-10-23 13:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been dumped, honey. I know because it happened to me over 30 years ago. Don't look back. Move ahead without him. You can do it. You deserve better.
2006-10-23 13:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing go see other people. because if he told you that then that is how he feels. and probably nothing will change that
2006-10-23 13:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋