I know only two guys that liked me before and now they don't. Plus, they were both stupid. So please help me attract guys. I don't have much money to spend and I can't wear make-up. I want to go out with a nice, caring guy that isn't a pervert.
2006-10-23 12:59:27 · 21 answers · asked by iishhereee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u need 2 relax.
b urself and try 2 stop that desperate vibe single women give off.
i know it's hard but u need friends, a crowd of nice, polite girls attracts a man quicker than a single strung-out girl, alone.
when ur with ur friends, u'll b ur most natural, which should go in ur favour 2.
get out there and make friends, boys/girls.
and c what happens.
good luck.
2006-10-23 13:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
That last requirement might be tricky...all guys are pervs, unless u want to date an Asian Buddhist monk.
Just be outgoing and say something random (and funny) every day u walk into class. Do this for like a month, then walk in without saying anything. They'll be sure to notice.
Or try something different with your hair. Or wear a funky hat (a guy remembered this hat i wore 3 years ago for one day!)
Also, pay attention to football. When that hottie is talking to his buddy in gym class about the touchdown last night, rattle off his stats and how he went to University of Illinois, and how the defensive line has so many holes they might as well put a piece of swiss cheese out there instead.
Good luck and have fun!
2006-10-23 20:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off, stop calling yourself names like out of love dumbo, that sounds like you dont have any self esteem. Think positive about yourself! You deserve a nice, caring guy who isnt a pervert. Usually the jerks end up with girls who are so insecure about themselves that they will do anything they want just to have a boyfriend. Dont put yourself in that category. If you think highly of yourself,then others will too. I dont mean stuck up, I mean stop thinking that you are ugly or too fat or too skinny or whatver. Just be yourself, you dont need to spend a lot of money on yourself to do that. It took me a long while to get a decent boyfriend, in the meantime I ended up with a lot of losers because I thought that that was what I deserve. There must be someone you are interested in, make a point of talking to him, smiling, just being yourself. I'm sure you will find someone decent. Plus ignore that guy that said to walk around naked. Good luck!
2006-10-23 20:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't worry about getting a boy friend. You should focus on becoming friends with the boys you like. Really get to know them. Looks get the attention but personality is what makes a person. A few years ago there was this boy. At first he was just a whatever. Not ugly. not hot. As the school year went on and I got to know him I started falling for him. When I tolled my friends that I liked him they thought I was crazy. His personality is what made me like him. The point of that story was its personality that maters most so you need to let guys see it. Become there friends and soon you find many boys that like you.
Oh and be nice to everybody. Even girls. Ya I know your not trying to atract girls, but boys notice and they don't want to date snobs. So if theres some one you don't like just aviod them. My friend who's with me right now has experinced that and she could have had an amazing guy but she messed it up.
Good luck!!!
2006-10-23 20:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by Wonder1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, you need a little self-confidence. Is your hair stylish? Can you wear at least a little blush, mascara, or lipstick? Wear some trendy clothes. But most of all, be nice. And funny helps too. I bet you have a lot of good qualities. You just need someone to point them out for you. Good Luck
2006-10-23 20:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by sheeny 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're aiming too high. All the guys your age are going to disgust you in one way or another.
Don't waste too much time,money,or effort trying to attract the right guy.When you pretty yourself up with make-up and clothes you're going to be attracting the attention of ALL the boys.It's the horniest and stupidest ones that'll come runnin'.Keep yourself low-key,and you just might find that the creeps will ignore you.That's when a decent boy has a chance to talk to you!
2006-10-23 20:05:52 · answer #6 · answered by Danny 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just be yourself, and the right guy for you will come along. If you want to be noticed more, you have to be more active. By that I mean, be more socially active and get out and meet new people and if your shy, try to get over that. Guys like girls that are confident, so be more confident in yourself. Good luck
2006-10-23 20:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by www.allamericanwarehouse.com 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just be you. Dress well with what you have, and don't worry over make up. Pretty women don't need it. your honesty is much more important to the right people than make up.
Go where the kind of people you want to date are. (church, school clubs ect..
Let guys know right off where you stand on them, what you expect, and will not put up with.
2006-10-23 20:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
All you have to do is be confident in yourself. Guys can sense confident women. There will be guys that like you and from what you're saying, it seems like you're young... you have plenty of growing to do.
There'll be plenty of guys in your future, so don't stress about it now. Worry about your own self happiness before worrying about a boyfriend.
2006-10-23 20:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just be yourself there is no need to wear alot of makeup... i know that sounds really cheesy... but it is the truth more than likely there is already a guy that has a crush on u... he just doesn't have the guts to ask u out... if there is a guy that u have ur eye on talk to his friends see if they can tell u if he likes u or not... and if they don't know get them to find out...
2006-10-23 20:03:24 · answer #10 · answered by cjsayers92 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋