she says she wants to be toghter but it is just boring anymore....i need to fix this but how
2006-10-23 12:53:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump her now I beg of you. Please do not degrade all male-kind by jumping through her hoops and playing little lap dog games. Move on. These are things women say to string you along and play with you. She's probably already got another boyfriend.
2006-10-23 12:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by Cybeq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's really important to just be yourself in a relationship. If you're running around trying to impress somebody - or keep them from being bored - then the relationship is going to be a lot of work - and eventually you will start to resent it.
Now if the scenario is this: You just hang out - maybe sleep together - and very seldom go do much else. She might be feeling more "used" than "bored." Most women do like to go and do things. And if you're really up for fixing things - and you're easy going - just ask her where she wants to go and what she wants to do. You can't read her mind. If you've been with her awhile you must know the kind of things she likes - shopping, movies, coffee houses - whatever. Note little things she says - and make them happen. and you know what? She should be doing that kind of stuff for you too.
Now - if the scenario is nothing like the paragraph above - Know this: If somebody told me they were "bored" with our relationship - I would ask if that meant they were bored with ME! When you're with somebody you really like (think about family members or good friends whose company you really enjoy) you're not bored! When I'm with good family and friends - it doesn't matter what we're doing - I'm having a grand time - because I like them. I would never feel bored.
When my kid says she's bored - I've learned that means "Please entertain me." And I may be wrong - but I don't think you want to sign up for entertaining this woman for the rest of your life - or even for awhile - until you realize that it's an unpleasant situation.
If you don't want to be forever "fixing" the relationship - I'd get out now. Let her find somebody else who will entertain her. And you can find somebody who really likes you - no matter what you're doing!
2006-10-23 13:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her out somewhere new and show her there is no way she can be bored now. dont be afraid to spend some $ if you really care about her you will do ANYTHING for her. Be differant, be exciting, and most importantly be someone who knows how to have a good time and she wont be bored for a long time. ( im not saying do like do anything WITH her just have fun)
2006-10-23 13:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by doggygm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't say u are to youthful as much as now, what i visit declare is you're to youthful to be in a courting that u might deem severe. it is in simple terms b'cuz if u can not make him chuckle and u can not be sturdy buddies as nicely as fans with out attempting and getting advice then you definately quite are not sturdy for another. look i could desire to sound like an a$$wipe asserting this and that i'm watching for thumbs downs yet this became extraordinarily much precisely like my 1st realetionship (additionally with a guy) We have been extraordinarily lots in simple terms aquaintances who did it and kissed. i presumed i became in love yet till considered one of my buddies dropped at my interest that we weren't sturdy buddies and sturdy fans i realised that this courting i presumed on the time became the be all and end all of my relationships became quite no longer something yet yet another gay individual who i could desire to narrate to. It would not sound to me like u could proceed your courting of being fans in case you may attempt complicated to make him chuckle or smile. Sorry hun, yet that's what i've got self belief.
2016-10-16 07:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep the relationship from being boring i guess. hang out more. go to the movies and the mall or each others houses. make your relationship more fun.
2006-10-23 12:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by Shelby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ma-by take your girl out somewhere special some where she wants to go or do something sweet cuz lots of girls like nice thing. (well some not me).
2006-10-23 13:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by JRiVErA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do fun stuff together! Be unpredictable, romantic and generous. It won't fail.
2006-10-23 12:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do somethin u've never done before
2006-10-23 12:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋