2006-10-23 12:15:23 · 28 answers · asked by loki99_00 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, just to clarify things... he and I just recently started dating, and I was told last night. This was a reoccuring thing, and he says that he did feel like a whore. This ended over a year ago, not to happen again...He has since been tested. He also just moved here, hundreds of miles away.
2006-10-23 15:11:38 · update #1
Only if he sends you a bill.
2006-10-23 12:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by tranquilllity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For HIV and for other STD's there is a window period where the person is infected but his test results are negative.
If your boyfriend's test results are still negative for HIV and other STD's six months after he had sex with the internet lady, then you can be reasonably sure that he is not infected with these diseases.
But you cannot be 100% sure about Herpes and some bacterial STD's where the person can become a carrier without having any symptoms.
2006-10-23 12:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmmmm, sometimes with std as aids it shows up 10 days after wards or 10 yrs afterwards.hebetter get tested every 6 months, as for u i don t even know what to say. u r okay that he is a prositute? a giglo? if it was me i would have been long gone, a man that has sex for money is worse than a cheating husband, he knows what is doing and for what. unles he was starving and his kids had no place to live there is no reason a man should be cheating .... for money,
2006-10-23 12:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you should be concern cause if it could happen for the first time it could continue to the second and continue to roll on and on and on top of that faithfulness and loyalty are also contributing to a good, healthy and strong relationship apart of some other factors. so it's not only the matter if he's clean or not from the test.
2006-10-23 12:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well are you in an open relationship? If not, he will do this again no matter what he says. I have been there with a female. If they cheat once, no matter what the circumstances are, they will do it again. If you are no agreeable to this, get out now while you can. I promise you, it will not stop. And if he loved you, nothing would cause me to ever do that if I loved someone!
2006-10-23 12:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by Randall L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much of a bf if he has sex with someone other than you. Of course you should be concerned! It takes a while for a positive reading to show up...like three months or so.
2006-10-23 12:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by The Oldest Man In The World 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely!! Not all diseases show up right away. He must always use a condom and be tested again in a year for VD and AIDS. If he is still prostituting himself you need to get a new bf.
2006-10-23 12:17:09 · answer #7 · answered by mar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's pretend you are telling the truth...Now think about the type of woman who would be so hard up she'd have to pay for it. Now imagine getting her sloppy seconds. Do you still need a disease in order to turn that down?
2006-10-23 12:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by miquin1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all are u ok with your boyfriend having sex with a girl he met online??? and if so y would u let him do that? second of all no need to be concerned cuz test came out clean...but i still think its weird that u would let someone pay him for sex
2006-10-23 12:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't mind being with a guy who fools around with other women, paying (which would make him a prostitute) or not (which would just make him a cheat)...then DON'T be concerned.
He wouldn't be my boyfriend, however clean he came up in subsequent tests!
2006-10-23 12:20:20 · answer #10 · answered by pat z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes you should be concerned, what happens if your man !comes into money issues, your *** out! you only get one life, its ok if he wants to play with his, but dont put your life at risk
2006-10-23 12:25:50 · answer #11 · answered by robin p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋