I have a boyfriend. He's sweet,best man I've ever met , met him when we were 5. But the thing is, we don't give a damn about our friends or peoples comments. It's my parents who I worry about.
We've been together for some time. But my mom and dad dissagree with my choice, so do his. Kiet says his parents will do fine, but what about mine? What should I say to them?
2006-10-23 12:11:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Introduce you bf to your parents. Let your bf talk to your parents and let him tell you parents that his intentions are good and that he cares about you and your future. If they get to know him, then maybe they'll change their mind.
2006-10-23 12:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you are the one that has to live the rest of your life with you decisions. Now with respect to your parents, if it is anything other than race, there is a reason. I do not know how old you are but parents sometimes see what you do not because you are "in love" Trust your parents to a point that they care for you. They are not out to get people, just care for you. But if you "honestly" feel it is unjust, then trust your heart. But remember this, the decision, you will ultimatly answer for, ok. Be careful
2006-10-23 12:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by Randall L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ughh asian parents so like that lol just like mine totally just tell them the truth and say that evryone is different and likes different people cept my dad want my dude 2 be viet like him but im in to chinese boys only pretty weird just tell them the truth and say maybe its time for a change plus its your life your choice you make so they should back of
2006-10-23 12:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by ..::pimpin azn grl::.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u a mexican??
its hard to have inter-racial relationships
even w/in the race- for ex. Colombian & Mexican two different countries that have different views and vocabulary now imagine an asian w/ a european,other asian, hispanic
2006-10-23 12:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by axlrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them that they should be happy for you as long as he treats you good. Thats what i tell my daughter, and what my mom told me. I've dated just about every race except asian (because there arent really any around here) and my parents dont care, as long as hes good to me.
2006-10-23 12:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by Smitten_Kitten 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Vietnamese boy eh? You should do something to let your mom have approval. Have you boyfriend talk to your parents.
2006-10-23 12:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to express your opinion slowly and calmly. If they don't listen, wait until they calm down, then you have the moment to strike
2006-10-23 12:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lucifer Sam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them that a parent job is to support your decions not disagree. if he makes you happy then go for it. its not about them its about you.
2006-10-23 12:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by Stacey l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same with me my parents dont hate mexicans jux pefer i date my race (asains) i dont kare tho its my life. my love
2006-10-23 12:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by && hOw dO i sAy i lUv u ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u love him he loves u i think u should tel ur parents that u love him n not leave him
2006-10-23 12:19:00 · answer #10 · answered by LOST 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋