I have a friend that is on the bigger side of things, and when we go to the mall, she stuffs her face, but all the guys gravitate to her? Why?
2006-10-23 11:49:44 · 13 answers · asked by vegasvuxeb 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
I sure do! My wife of 10 years is plus-size and hot as hell. Big girls take the time to develop a REAL personality as well as a thick skin against bullies and other dumb@$$es.
2006-10-23 12:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure, I guess some guys do. But you don't sound like a very good friend, to say something like "she stuffs her face." Maybe you are a tad bit jealous of the attention she gets? Maybe she knows how to just be herself and you are one of those uptight girls whose afraid to even eat in front of a guy? I'm not trying to be mean, but I've heard it over and over, guys like a girl who isn't embarrassed to eat. And she must have some qualities you like if you hang out with her, guys probably like those qualities too.
2006-10-23 18:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by nimo22 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys want to hit it, but they don't want to date a big chick. It's a fantasy, kind of like a cheerleader, you know?
The other element is that it's less stressful to talk to a big chick because you assume she'll be receptive.
Those are sorta mean, but they're realities.
2006-10-23 18:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are some guys who like big women. Don't worry about the guys that she's attracting. What's your batting average?
2006-10-23 19:04:42 · answer #4 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Charisma & confidence. I was taught at a younger age that men are stupid, so if you act like you're hot & you know it, well they'll believe it. (besides, some guys just dig women who look like women instead of emaciated little boys) lol
2006-10-23 18:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by kristalshyt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys like big chicks different strokes for different folks
2006-10-23 18:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by wookie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's all in the way you present yourself. If she radiates self confidence and she takes care of herself, she is beautiful to many, despite her weight. Men like confidence, not necessarily weight. Men like women who are sure of themselves.
2006-10-23 18:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the more pushin for the cushin baby you need to stuff your face. all guys are different.
2006-10-23 19:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by fammo386 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all about charisma - she obviously sends a message to guys that she confident in herself and not desperate - guys - they love a chase
2006-10-23 19:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they want some of her food.
2006-10-23 19:03:41 · answer #10 · answered by Fluffy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋