Ok so there is this guy that i dated three times before and i thought that third time was the charm but it turns out that it wasn't. I think about him all the time and i just recently myspaced him a message he responded back but i dont know should i continue to try and talk to him or should i just let it go and not say anything further, i forgot to mention that he broke my heart too.
2006-10-23 11:48:39 · 15 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK look, I got 3 older brothers, I know how a guys mind works.Girl, you need to move on and get yourself a man that is worth your time!Lol, sorry for the big "update", but seriously. I can't tell you how many times my older brothers have done that to a girl. He is just using you. He just likes the attention that he's getting from you and believe me, he's going to let you come to him again, and break your heart again. You seriosly need to find a guy worth your time, even if it means moving on.
2006-10-23 11:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by Liza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. sounds like something i just went through about a year and a half ago.
i kept trying to talk to the guy and he seemed like he was still interested in me too, so we talked for a while and we decided to give it another shot. and now we've been together since.
so i suggest that if he is telling you that he is still intrested in you, then go for it. talk to him for a while and see where that gets you. if you guys dont fight or anything, then start dating again. and if you guys end up breaking up again, you guys can still be good friends. follow your heart. if you love him, dont let go. sometimes you just have to go for it, or else you'll never know on what would of or could have happened.
best of luck!
2006-10-23 11:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really need more details to answer this... but my rule of thumb is that if being with a guy doesn't make me happy at least 80% of the time he's not for me. And of course the unhappy times must be just normal drama, not anything crazy.
2006-10-23 11:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by cb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the reason why you two broke up in the first place. But from what I am hearing, i would say move on there are too many men out there to dwell on one.
2006-10-23 12:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by mizz_toree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you feel like he could have changed by now then prehaps give it one last shot....and then if it doesnt work out again then move on (knowing youve tried but its not meant to be)
This is depending on how he broke your heart tho...like if it was something bad like he was cheating on you then i wouldnt go back at all...but if not if u wana give it one last shot then do so...you have nothing to lose really!
2006-10-23 11:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by hello hello! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone goes through this type of relationship anxity so to speak. if i were you i'd leave him alone. you've been through heart break three times with this guy and now you're trying to go through heartbreak number four. that's not the wisest thing to do. just move on with your life and find someone new. or better yet. let someone new find you. who knows what's in store if you let love come to you instead of trying to find it for yourself.
2006-10-23 12:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. Find someone new. I know a few guys I could hook you up with. Jack, John or Jim.
2006-10-23 11:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by PS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it doesn't take after that many tries, I'd say it's never going to. Best to let sleeping dogs lie.
2006-10-23 11:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u shouldnt, three times is enough. just move on and find someone better. but u might want to talk to him bout this. ask him how he feels too.
2006-10-23 11:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by countryman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-23 11:51:02 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋