Every guy i sleep with (it's only been 3) I get emotionally attached with immediately afterwards. How can i just go with the flow?
2006-10-23 11:45:25 · 12 answers · asked by mzvirgo19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all...
It's beautiful that you feel so much for your lovers..nothing wrong with that! Your emotions come through . It will b difficult, but try to give yourself to a worthy person. Think of yourself as a "gem" don't squandor your treasure. Save it! And when you find someone who's going to be around in the morning & afternoon, not just the nites, give yourself to him.....
When a guy doesn't stick around they r ashamed of their actions. The "light" has revealed who they truly are. So, keep the ones that won't run away . Cherish the one who is proud to be with you. Men r so skilled at getting us into bed...& they only get better as they age...so follow their actions..if they get up right after sex, okay fine...let them go!! but don't let them back in your life. If they don't call the day after..."delete" their number to save yourself heartache & move on!! Don't do nasty stuff with guys that u don't really know well. Save all of your treasure for a man who is your "king" your "Raja". Someone else wrote, you are not the first to be fooled by these jerks...that is true!
How lucky you are to be able to "fall" for these guys...u felt something & that's the beautiful thing. It's their loss....keep loving, but protect yourself from disease okay?? So when you DO find your dream you will be a happy, healthy person.
So many people say sex is NOT love...but it IS ...God created us that way...to love & be loved...you r not strange for feeling this way.
Hugs /kisses,
Shayla
2006-10-23 12:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to? It is normal for you to be attached to a male with whom you have just mated with. Mating is how humans procreate. If we did not feel attachment to the person were intimate with, then we would be nothing more than animals. This attachment is what keeps relationships together. Choose your mates wisely.
2006-10-23 11:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by mindful_n_ga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow and do what? Sleep with people and not get attatched? Like a hoe?
2006-10-23 11:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait for a few years before sleeping with the next guy. It sounds like you are too young to be sleeping around.
2006-10-23 11:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's the sleeping with them that does that. maybe hold off a bit next time, so you can keep yourself healthy. getting attatched because of sex is good, but it can bite you in the **** if there is no committment and will set you back even farther. wait until comittment from you is needed, THEN have sex
2006-10-23 11:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by jami p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh particular it quite is me. I too am engaged on it and characteristic gotten lots greater suitable. 2 years in the past, I met an exceedingly warm guy, drummer in a band with long curly hair, very attractive. I met him on a Sunday and he moved in on Friday.
2016-10-16 07:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz u looking for sumthin more than jus sex but can't find it and sleepin with (jus 3) guys ain't gonna do it
2006-10-23 11:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by !!yentruoc!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens. Lust (love only for the body image) is very common after sex/sleeping with, so don't worry about, just try to remeber its not what your looking for.
=] Don't worry, your not the only one!
2006-10-23 11:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it the way you are you cant changed that ever boy you sleep with suppose to be special to you anyway. that show you love them and not just letting them get in your pants
2006-10-23 11:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by sexyblu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WICKED's right. Give him the points. I'll take my two.
2006-10-23 11:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by randyken 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋