i secretly have a desire to have sex? why is that? i'm only a freshman. i just want someone to hold me and tell me they love me and mean it and have something special with somebody. why is that so wrong?
2006-10-23 11:26:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because you're a cow
2006-10-23 11:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
It's not wrong to want to have sex. It's not wrong to want to be held and loved and have a relationship. And it's not wrong to love and actually have sex, unless you're immature and irresponsible about it.
Don't worry, there's nothing weird about you. You're simply experiencing feelings and desires that everyone has at some point in their life. You just have to learn how to control your feelings and most of all accept them. Don't be afraid of your inner thoughts and desires, because they're part of you.
2006-10-23 11:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by Cheshire Riddle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dearest, sex and love are too completely different things. Don't let society mix the two up for you!
Otherwise, what you are wanting, the "holding and love me" part, that is an absolutely wonderful thing to want. That is what sets humans apart from other species. The need for skin contact.
Love comes first, REAL love. then the sex thing comes later.
2006-10-23 11:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by Delilah L W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with wanting to have contact with others.
Just be careful in how you go about finding that special someone for you. There a re a lot of people out there that look to take advantage of people in your situation. Don't just go out and give yourself to the first person that pays attention to you.
We all need human contact. It is perfectly normal to want to be held, and loved.
I wish you much luck in finding someone to share your life with.
2006-10-23 11:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by jam961 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I'm in the exact same situation, but I'm going to save sex for marrage because if I loose my virginity to the wrong guy and I get my heart broken it's going to affect my life forever.
2006-10-23 11:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by Liza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that. It is a good thing. Just remember your words here: have something special with someone (who I hope will be very special!!). Don't ever forget you said it.
2006-10-23 11:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you may be missing something in your life.dont jump into something you may regret for the rest of your life a guy will tell you what you want to here so they can get what they want so what ever you decide think long and hard.
2006-10-23 11:35:50 · answer #7 · answered by joseph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have all that...without the sex! And then when you are married you can have all that...with sex!
Your virginity is something special and can only be given once...wouldn't it be nicer to save it for the guy you marry and intend to be with the rest of your life...instead of with some guy who will move on to the next target after he gets what he wants from you.
2006-10-23 11:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Those are natural feelings for a freshman. Could be symptoms of puberty.
2006-10-23 11:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by freak_oftheindustry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
e-mail me. jk really sex isn't about that, holding someone and telling them you love them is love not sex. don't confuse the two. sex is a close experience with another but should not be confused with love.
2006-10-23 11:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong to want to have sex its your age and your body and hormones is changing. but its still good to wait until i think u really ready. and that person will come and you will be happy and he will love you with all his heart, just wait the time will come
2006-10-23 11:36:53 · answer #11 · answered by love 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋