last night my mom tryed sticking up for me and now my dads really pissed
2006-10-23 11:17:40 · 16 answers · asked by Megan28 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No honey you shoulden't in a couple of days everything will be just fine... that's what happens with me and my parents all the time.
2006-10-23 11:20:28 · answer #1 · answered by Greek Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Your parents are probably fighting because they have something that they need to reach an agreement on about you. This could be anything... food, cloths, education, sport, bed time, relationships... the list could be endless). Parents sometimes find it hard to agree on what's best for their children, but they tend to sort it out eventually, even if the discussion they have is a bit loud and cross at times. Don't worry about it, they both love you very much. You are the most important thing in their lives and the last thing they would want would be for you to feel bad about their arguments.
2006-10-23 11:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by Lancelot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont feel bad, he'll get over it eventually. But make sure that what mom was sticking up for was really worth it, if it wasnt try to make things right if you can for all three of you. Try to be open in your communication as calmly as possible and if it starts to get out of hand you and mom may have to back off for a little while.
hope i helped some.
2006-10-23 11:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by rzblossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have lived with this same issue for years but recently I realised that it is not my fault as it's their choice to stick up for you...if the other parent get's pissed off then that's their choice too. You should not blame yourself as it just strains the relationship you have with your parents....
2006-10-23 12:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by starlight_night_time 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You should be mad at your dad not your mom. She was trying to help you not hurt you. My mom and step dad get into fights about me all the time. It's not your fault.
2006-10-23 11:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by Skylar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always argue with my husband about my kids. It is part of being a parent. Sometimes you don't agree with what your spouce is saying or doing. I usually win though because I am the one that is home with them the most. Don't feel bad because of their argument. It is totally natural.
2006-10-23 11:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by roxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not feel bad because your parents got in a fight over you because it is there lives not yours. don't worry about it!!!
2006-10-23 11:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no honey, you shouldnt ever feel it is your fault. the jerks who are telling you that it is suck. it isnt your fault, there is usually an underlying factor for your parents to fight, even if they use you as a cover
2006-10-23 11:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by Syd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arguing over another person is a power struggle between them. If it wasn't you they fought about, it would be something else.
2006-10-23 11:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it dependz on wut the issue was and hoew bad the fight was. u really have 2 think about that...was it something thatz so bad they can never look @ each other again or was it a little fling that they'll both get over!
2006-10-23 11:21:03 · answer #10 · answered by bowwowzbabiigurl309 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋