I am 9 months pregant with his child and due in two weeks?I now it sounds bad but i really hated him after the break up(he cheated while drunk) and when i found out i was 5 months along already.Should i at this point?He goes to another college than me so i would have to drive an hour to do it in person?
2006-10-23 11:15:40 · 4 answers · asked by Jill g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He does not now i am pregnant!
2006-10-23 11:20:16 · update #1
why didnt you tell him ealier?!!!! i am pretty sure he wouldn't care by now. He will tell you that you are a whore and it's not his baby and tell you to f.. off..and that you are also a liar...if he is a nice boy...and he seems to be the opposite (cheated while drunk:@??!).so i suggest you save that trip money and talk to him on the phone. Don't expect him to do anything for you and your baby. And try not to be nervous or neurotic. think about your baby... That x of yours will definately argue that it's not his. Try to make him do the paternity tests. And apply for govt help for single mothers or something of that sort. I sure hope you are are not 15 or something of that sort..cos that SUCKS. Tell your parents. Tell someone. And try to get as much money as you can. From ANYONE. kids are so expensive. GOOD L UCK!!!!!
2006-10-23 11:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by Feodora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dam i feel sorry for you, you should have told him earl yer why did you not tell him.
you have to tell him that its his baby, he have to take care of what he have done, you dont have to do anything to him or get back together with him, but make him pay what he deserve. make him pay for the kids food and ext. ext. you shouldn't let him have a easy life when you are having a hard time. tell his parent, do what ever, even have a blood exam on the kid if its from your ex. this way he wont have any excuse.
it may sound stupid to be doing all these things now, but it will be alot easyer on your self at a later time.
2006-10-23 18:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by TN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell him, keep it too yourself. Live alone as a single mum getting fat with a succession of losers dropping by to fvck you and abuse the kid........what a waster your parents must be really proud!!
2006-10-23 18:19:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should do that and tell him that ur carrying his child and u can loose ur child 2 stress if he is cheating in u u should leave him and get wit someone esle that wants 2 be wit u and ur baby. good luck
2006-10-23 18:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋