Because my boyfriend is great, but i think hes not that interested in me..so i need advice of him likeing me more.If its not to much trouble.
2006-10-23 11:14:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, afraid not, give up and find another one
2006-10-23 11:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by teenylollypopuk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I know how to make him not interested in you - ring him 20 times a day, and email him too. Always be drop anything you had planned with yur freinds to spend an evening with him. Be jealous of any other girl he mentions. Stop him playing his favourite sports and try to like everything that he likes.
Alternatively make yourself a spirited, interesting individual with plenty of people wantng to spend time with you. Have your own opinions and hobbies, encourage him to spend time with his buddies when you go out with yours. Be ready with a smile and encouragement but make sure your needs are known too. Be the kind of girl you would want as a best friend in an ideal world - then if he doesn't realise how lucky he is to have you as a girlfriend then someone else will!
2006-10-23 11:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by Leapling 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question because I quite enjoy being sarcastic especially to inanane Americans but Ill give you an answer from myheart .I think,as a male you should try and find out somehow?how much he likes you -perhaps he is into to you-perhaps its easy,convenenient sex-who knows.If I,was that interested in a woman I would make quite a bit of effort to show her .Playing cool is great at 20 boring at30.best of luck
2006-10-23 11:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by yellowpalma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Appreciate him. Thank him. Let him know that you are his biggest fan and that, of all the people in the world that he could be with, he should be happy that he found someone who really gets him. And that is what you should expect in return, from any man you devote your time and heart in.
We don't often thank our spouses for simple things, not for things like taking out the garbage but for things like going to a job they hate because they care about maintaining the life you share. We don't often thank our spouses for wearing a particular color that we like, for staying in shape, for holding us in the middle of the night or for listening to us vent about the day. For not buying that car he wanted because what you wanted together came first in his book. Look for something he did right today and thank him for it. When you are having a terrible day and come home and see that he really did pick his clothes up off the floor, put the cap back on the toothpaste, he did rinse his cup out or remember to take the cat in before leaving for work, all those things should put a smile on your face. Let him know that what he does makes you happy.
All those things which make up a healthy relationship, they all need to be nurtured and, who wouldn't want to be told (for no reason at all and right out of the blue) how great they look today and thanks for being your friend?
Better yet, treat your guy to dinner tonight, for no reason, just because you like to be alone with him.
2006-10-23 11:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by Liligirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well love it has happened to me many of times, when I was younger but I have come to face it, if a boy doesn't like me for what and who I am, than they are not the right person for me. I have learnt to be myself, if he cares for you, he will never ask you to change, if he doesn't care then you deserve to find someone who does care enough. Sex to keep a man, is not a relationship! Refering to the above.
2006-10-23 11:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh jeez, I smell trouble here. Just be yourself and know yourself and love yourself and don't worry too much, you can't make hime like you if he doesn't really. By all means try and be interested in him and get along with him but don't alter your personality as if he doesn't really like you it will end up being for nothing.
2006-10-23 11:25:14 · answer #6 · answered by johnnydee 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't make yourself a slave to his desires! Tell him to clear off and find someone who IS interested in you.
2006-10-23 11:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by carnival queen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My tip is just to make him more relaxed around you and let him know you better.
Bubbabee*:)
2006-10-25 11:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the best sex ever..........
Leave him gagging for more then make yourself scarce.............
Every time you speak to him try and turn him on then say corr the things I wanna do to you when I see you....................Then make out your well busy when he wants to see you
Good luck xxxx
2006-10-23 11:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't appear needy, wait for him to text you or call you.
2006-10-23 20:22:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. If he doesn't like it, don't change. Wait, for someone that likes you for you.
2006-10-23 11:18:04 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋