The dog weighs about 90 lbs and he knows I am not a dog person. We play well when we do play but when I correct him when my husband isnt home he becomes very assertive and aggressive. I have picked up a weapon and made him leave the house but I still fear the dog.
2006-10-23 11:14:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Dogs
The problem is that you never asserted yourself with the dog when it was younger, and ONLY respects your husband as pack leader. It also sounds like the dog is male and hasn't had his boys lopped off. Get the dog fixed, and watch how much calmer he becomes.
2006-10-23 11:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Manny 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I agree with many of those who said you should not live with a dog you are afraid of. I have 2 Rottweilers, that are trained well with my husband and I the alphas. Your Pit sees you as "lower" in his pack than him. You need to change this. You need your husbands help, and perhaps a behaviorist or a vet. I do not buy into all the Pit Bull hype, but I know that dogs are pushy and can potentially be dangerous. So, in short talk this over with your husband, and if you aren't willing or not able to work this out, find the dog a good home. Don't live in fear though.
2006-10-23 22:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by rottymom02 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dog did not neccesarily come from a bad breeder, her husband just may not have taken the time or effort to properly train the dog.
You could hire a trainer(not classes) so that y'all are able to work one on one with the dog. Personally, the dog would have to go. I would not be able to live with any animal that acted that way toward me and that I was afraid of. Ok, well maybe a chihahua.
If you do decide to keep the dog, obedience training is a MUST.
Oh, and don't put it in a pen. That will only make the dog worse. Dogs are pack animals and need to be with their people.
2006-10-23 19:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by jaxchick23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You AND the dog need to go to some obedience classes. Go to these without your husband. The dog needs to see you as the dominant one. Right now the dog sees your husband as the pack leader, and he's basically testing you. If training doesn't work, at least you know you tried. Your next step would be to find the dog a new home, or if he cannot be found a new home have him euthanized. Only poorly bred pit bulls are agressive.
2006-10-23 18:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by The Mouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband needs to find a new home for that dog. No one should have to live with an animal they fear. Not only that but if the dog knows you fear him the time will come when you will not be able to control the dog. Something is definitely wrong if you have to use a weapon to control the dog. That won't work for ever eventually the dog will figure out he is bigger and stronger. Any dog especially one that is that big has to be controlled. It could mean someones life or safety. It could mean yours.
2006-10-23 18:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by Carol s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't live in fear of any dog. The biggest point is to try (as hard as it may be) NOT to show the dog you are afraid, dogs are amazing at picking up on our moods, and if you are afraid it gives them the upper hand. You did the right thing protecting yourself, but never hit him unless you are attacked.
In any case, if this dog (and such a big dog) is showing aggression, I would strongly recommend you get rid of him. Nothing is worth taking the chance of you getting bitten, a dog that size can cause a serious amount of damage. If your husband values you at all he will agree. If not, then it's not only the dog who needs sent packing.
2006-10-23 18:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have rotties and love them dearly. If any of them ever became agressive to me or any member of the family it would be time to take a drive to the vet. I am not and will never be afraid of a animal that live in MY house. If you have to pick up a weapon then its time for the dog to go. Next time it may be you leaving the house in the emer. squad.
Let me make myself clear. I DO NOT DISLIKE PITT-BULL. I think they are neat, but they do need to know WHO the BOSS is.
2006-10-23 18:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by lilbit_883_hugger 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A dog that can be a breed that is hard to control and has been know to be agggressive or even down right deadly. Has no place in your home. Before some thing happens to you the dog should be rehomed.Or taken to obedience school with you.
2006-10-23 18:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by cin_ann_43 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Any dog can become dangerous when not trained properly .I've owned Pitties for the last 18 years and one was a male who tried to assert himself over me. My hubby and I had to go through special training with Ziggy to ensure he was a well behaved boy. My females now both know who's boss of the house.They do what I want them to do. They know who's in charge at all times.Either go through training with this boy or give him up to some one who can train him properly and give him a decent life.It sounds like a accident waiting to happen.
2006-10-23 22:39:02 · answer #9 · answered by pitbullmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must walk tall & display calm attitude. Dogs pick up on things like fear & submission. He must learn that your husband is the alpha male & you are the beta female. You & your husband should visit a good trainer together. The dog must be taught to be submissive to those who are higher in the pack.
2006-10-23 18:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by PAMELA G 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋