Whenever I get the chance, I go to see my boyfriend, which usually isn't much, becuase I'm still in high school and he works full time as a shift manager. But whenever I do get the time to go and see him, he sometimes just sits in front of his computer playing games and I feel like he is ignoring me.
I am finally in a good relationship with a wonderful guy that I love with all my heart. I have a history of bad relationships, so I'm afraid that if I confront him about how I feel, I will lose him. He has reassured me in the past that I'm not going to lose him, but I don't want to get him mad at me, I've never seen him mad though. I don't know how I should confront him about it or if I even should confront him about it. What should I do???
2006-10-23 11:01:00 · 18 answers · asked by hpdrew15 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is 21 and I am 17. He has a roommate named Mike, who is also my friend as well as his. He is not a dropout, he did graduate from high school. We have a lot of the same friends. He has his own apartment with Mike. The games that he is playing are one person RPG games.
2006-10-23 13:04:22 · update #1
Dump him and get someone who will pay you the attention you seek.
2006-10-23 11:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be honest with him. If you don't speak up he will think that you don't mind that he is on the computer when you are there. I am sure that if he is a reasonable guy that he will not leave you over somthing so trivial if he does then i am sorry to have to say this but he isn't worth it anyway. Suggest going to the cinema, bowling or similar activities instead.
Honesty is the best policy, bottling it up will cause more problems down the line.
All the best
2006-10-23 18:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by CW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...he looks at computer when you make time for him..hmm....did you just answer your own question? I think your "history" has caught up with you again...and if you aren't 18 and he is over 18...shame on you...you could get him put in jail.....finish school and get your first job then worry about relationships sheeesh!!! Y R U in such a hurry to get attached to somebody?
2006-10-23 18:04:58 · answer #3 · answered by Cadman1965 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Computers are addictive , he probably doesn't know he's doing it
try finding something else to do in a different room and pretty soon he'll start feeling like you do now , only then will you be able to discuss it without him saying your making a fuss about nothing .
2006-10-23 18:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is ignoring you and finds the computer more interesting. talk to him . Tell him you feel ignored and left out.. if he gives you a rude response then he is not worth being with. if he is understanding then it may work out.. you may experience a lot of bad relationships before finally finding one that is really good..
2006-10-23 18:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly, it sounds like you are not "finally" in a good relationship. If you are still in high school, I would cool it with him and just have fun. Enjoy being young while you can!
2006-10-23 18:04:44 · answer #6 · answered by April TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and beat his high score on super mario bros 3
2006-10-23 18:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he's not that perfect if he's not even paying you any attention, I think you should talk to him, Did he graduate or is he a drop out? If he's a drop out you should drop him he has no future, if he did graduate he's too old for you to be dating, Now which is it!!!!!
2006-10-23 18:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by lildemon78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said yourself that he said you wouldn't lose him, so tell him whats bothering you. If you can't confront him on this honey, I wouldn't trade places with you, I never did like floor mats
2006-10-23 18:05:43 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are not girls
girls like to go out all the time and spend money
guys like to stay home and let the day pass.
2006-10-23 18:20:00 · answer #10 · answered by TN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's jsut a guy and enjoying his time after work. Ignore him buy a video game for yourself and join him that's all you can do!
2006-10-23 18:02:47 · answer #11 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋