recently I got into a new group of friends, and i started going out with one of the guys. But i think I chose the wrong one... the guy who I like and who likes me is my boyfriends best friend! what should we do?
2006-10-23 10:58:39 · 33 answers · asked by harrysliljudd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it is so and you strongly feel it, then RUN to him
2006-10-23 11:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by GGG 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
As far as the guys are concerned, if this guy who you like is your boyfriend's best friend, then as between them they should want the best for one another.
I'm not saying it would be the easiest thing in the world, but if your boyfriend cares for you and for his best friend, then he shouldn't come between you and the guy you want. I wouldn't, and none of my closest friends would either if they were in your boyfriend's position.
Talk it out with the guy you like and see if you can decide how things would work out between the three of you if you two decided to take things further.
Good luck!
2006-10-23 11:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how good looking you are.If you've got a face like a pigs **** and think lyou you can still pull the other guy and you are under 30 go for it!If your over 30 with an ugly face then be greatfull for what you have.Not nice but brutally honest
2006-10-23 11:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by yellowpalma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do is to end one relationship before starting another one. Nicely say to the guy that you don't feel like you guys should be a couple. Then.....don't go after the other guy too soon. Time will take care of that.
2006-10-23 11:02:53 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weel frist thing u should do is
know what kind of guy ur going out with write know if hes prretty mean and those guys how thnk they r pretty though that will be a pretty hadr dession put if hes a nice and understanddive guy u should tell him the trough another thing it depends how old he is cause if hes pretty old it would be harder
one last thing is that u should also know what kind of person is the guy u like
well good luck
2006-10-23 11:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by ha ha ha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. spend some time with this other guy to make sure.
2. make a decision. you are old enough to do that
3. tell the wrong guy that you made a mistake. Realize there may be hard feedlings. Be sure this new guy is best for you.
2006-10-23 11:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by julie l 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why not just tell or ask the guy you like to go out on a date. you will then come to know if he likes you. then you can let the other go in a nice way. read tips on dating and relationships to help you more on this site
2006-10-23 11:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by lushy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this began recently then explain to your current boyfriend that it was a mistake and that you really feel something towards his friend... try to be honest but take into account his feelings as well...
2006-10-23 11:01:31 · answer #8 · answered by kamqx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ex's are off limits without consent from the other guy, and consent is rarely given (though I did it that way with my ex, she dating my best friend but he wasnt interested in her)...meaning you need to get out of it...
2006-10-23 11:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you blew it. Isn't that Code #1, you dont date your friends friends, brothers friends, BOYFRIENDS FRIENDS?? Its just wrong, nothing good will come of this. Unless HE'S reeeeally into you, and your willing to ruin ALOT of friendships, let this one go.
2006-10-23 11:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by Freakgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
If you think it will work out than leave your BF for his friend. Just know that you will be destroying a friendship in the process.
2006-10-23 11:01:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋