sometimes i just think.... why is everyone out there trying to find a guy or girl and then having 'problems' in their relationship? i mean i do believe that God put someone out their for me but sometimes its hard to think is he waiting? will i ever find him does he even think i'm out there? am i just stupid for thinking this? do guys even care about finding the right person or is it just something that isn't real... like a fairytale
2006-10-23 10:56:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello, You know a lot of people try to find someone just to avoid the loneliness & besides having someone in your life can be a lot of fun! But there can be a lot of people who are wrong for us but we don't know that until we get too involved and end up getting our heart broken. But I do think there is a perfect match for us a "soulmate" ...but only God knows who that is and only He could put you two together.You would probably have to have a personal relationship with God to get him to work in your life ...pray a lot about your situation & see what happens...ok? God does answers prayer ( I know!)......and yes I do think about the very same things you do...it's smart to do that....God already knows everything about you...and it says in the bible..."you have not because you ask not"...so ask Him - every day!...good luck ..bye bye
2006-10-23 11:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of the time we think there is no one for us, but you first have to look at things in a different perspective. First off, no one is perfect, therefore, no relationship is going to be perfect. Second, age. Men do not mature as fast as women, so if you are 25 and you are trying to date a guy that 25 a lot of the time it won't work, because the 25 year old female is mentally closer to 30, so he is not compatible. Third. A lot of the time a man does not want to get serious in the first place, so he will lie and cheat to get what he wants. I think you ladies know what that is. I am not saying that all men are that way, but there are quite a number of them that are out there for just what they can get out of a relationship and do not want it to become serious. I hope this helped.
2006-10-23 11:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by golden rider 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You both have to find each other.
You can't force it; it will just happen.
The guys that you should want to be with (not the sex addicts and players) do care about who they're with, sometimes even more than the girls (though it's typically harder for us to show it).
I know that I'm still looking for the right girl and wonder if it will ever happen.
I keep thinking "If it happened to all these other people (though not everyone), I know it will probably happen to me."
My advice: go with the flow, but take advantage of good opportunities.
2006-10-23 11:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by teh_popezorz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is such a thing and you both have to mature and grow in many ways before you meet. God don't put junk in your life he is being groomed for you so that when you meet you won't say I can't believe God sent me this mess.
2006-10-23 11:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am holding on with every ounce of patience to the woman I love because she is so confused. It is killing me slowly but I am sure she is the one so it is worth it to me to try. I am trying hard to give her the space she needs so she can figure out that I really mean it when I tell her I love her.
2006-10-23 11:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes guys care,trust me.They just don't show it like we do.
2006-10-23 10:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to me it is not stupid because i do wonder this things sometimes.
2006-10-23 10:59:21 · answer #7 · answered by metalchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys just want to kiss and have sex and hit it and quit it
2006-10-23 11:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by danny g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
If feels like we all need a partner.......but where are they?
2006-10-23 10:59:30 · answer #9 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋