Ok, I'm slighly reticent about posting this here because I've seen how people get treated but I want to see what others think. I have a strange fetish and am worried about coming out to my girlfriend about it. Let me explain: Ever since I was young and first saw the movie Sleeping Beauty I have been turned on by beautiful women being put to sleep. It's always been a fantasy of mine to awaken my sleeping beauty with a kiss. I like pretend hypnosis and seduction like in the movie Phantom of the Opera where he puts Christine to sleep only to awaken her with seduction. Let me say this any fantasy I have is just fantasy only. I will repeat it is fantasy only. Real knockouts are dangerous and stupid. It is fantasy only. Ok: So..I like normal sex and sexual stuff as well, the sleeping thing is just icing on the cake. I want to know how I can perhaps break this to her and see if we could do some FANTASY role play where she is the sleeping beauty. Any suggestions or should I keep it to myself.
2006-10-23 10:50:02 · 16 answers · asked by cosmiccantinacowboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep in mind this is only fantasy. If she was up form Role Play I would pretend to put her to sleep and then we would do role play. Keep that in mind.
2006-10-23 10:50:41 · update #1
Actually JP her faking would be just fine because it is the fantasy that I like. And no I am in no danger of actually drugging someone that is stupid, wrong, and dangerous. It's not what turns me on either, it's the fantasy and seduction. There is no seducing someone you drugged and kidnapped thats evil and wrong. Just want to clarify, however your answer is a good one.
2006-10-23 10:54:59 · update #2
Weird??
You think that's "strange"??
My god, man...That's not only tame...It's even kind of cute!
2006-10-23 10:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See the problem is that it wont do anything for you if she is just faking it. The only healthy way I see for you do do this is maybe kiss your girlfriend when she is sleeping, you know make a move on her in the morning before she gets up (granted you have the whole morning breath thing to deal with, lol) but this kinda fantasy can get ugly. Don't let it get out of hand and if it ever gets to thepoint where you want to actually drug a woman, etc, get help...
2006-10-23 10:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, anything goes as long as it is consensual. Just tell her your fantasy and take it from there. Most girls have their own fantasies also just to embarrassed to say, and like you said as long as you don't actually try to drug induce the sleep there should not be a problem. Sometimes fantasies definitely liven up the relationship altogether.
2006-10-23 10:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by luckygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude u r totally over reacting to a very innocent so called fetish... Just tell her what u told us, she wont trip out on it.... After all she is your girlfriend and all, I bet u she even has a fetish of her own that she is to embarrassed to tell u about... Be the one who breaks the ice.. Go for it!
2006-10-23 10:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you want to try soem role playing, if she is a woman with an open mind, then dont worry about, but if you feel she is more closed off, then maybe you should keep it to your self
2006-10-23 10:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds cool why dont you just ask here if she in to role playing if she likes you you'll both be wanting ti try something together right? It sounds sweet she might like it?
2006-10-23 10:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is kinda cute, in a way. have you ever just kissed her on the forehead or on the cheek to wake her? just take it one step further, but keep it clean, sleep sex is still rape.
2006-10-23 11:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is nothing. I've heard more creepy and disturbing fetishes than this. But it's good to talk to your girlfriend about this, she might understand.
2006-10-23 10:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by dark&pure? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mention it to her...since you aren't into the danger or knocking her out, and it is just role play...why not???
2006-10-23 10:52:34 · answer #9 · answered by Vanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not just wake her up that way? id take that over coffee any day.
if yr close enough to be fornicating you should be able to discuss fantasies. just my opinion...
2006-10-23 10:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by Rayknee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just simply ask her if she has any fantsy's and let the conversation flow.
2006-10-23 10:53:13 · answer #11 · answered by maymay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋