I often wonder if going down the road of sexual needs will make the relationship better and last longer or will sex only make it worse. I need your advice people. What do you think?
2006-10-23 10:40:48 · 20 answers · asked by nessmae2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
actually it does because i can say i have intercourse with my lady and she likes it and i do to and we aer already a year and we never fight and she goes down the road and i do too and you should give it a try around the 3rd month because the first 2 months are way to early for that ..90 days will be the anwser to make the relationship happy ....
2006-10-23 11:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by danny g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This isn't as hard as it sounds...because sex brings in both.
If you're really close in a relationship, and you show signs of love than it will increase the relationship. But if you have sex too often it definitely will complicate it in a negative way. Sex is a powerful thing, especially to women (for the most part), and just like everything else, to much of something can be bad in the end. It also depends on how long you've been with a person. Sometimes waiting a decent amount of time will help cement the foundations, so that it won't be so complex. A lot of relationships start out sexually and never build the foundation -- that's how a lot of people get hurt.
2006-10-23 17:47:40 · answer #2 · answered by xxxdarksakuraxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do that, you will open the door for more responsibility, thats a given...everyone including me has sexual needs but you cant sit there and not think of best and the worst outcome if you go down that road...to tell you the truth, if depends on each others attitude towards sex...you cant pinpoint the exact outcome because everyone has a different view..Some people think sex is casual like having a drink at a bar while others want to wait til the right time... meaning in a committed relationship preferably when they consumate a marriage....Sex means intimacy to me as I am married for 5-6 years now...You need to talk to your potential partner before you can make a decision to go that extra step...Whether you are male or female rape is still there...Dont force yourself on anyone..NO means NO even if you think its a Yes, its a NO if you hear NO...Contraceptive is a best way...protect yourself please...you dont want something you cant wash off ....Good Luck....
2006-10-23 17:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it makes it complicated.. u start worrying if that person is with you solely because u are "giving it up".. OR you may want to break up w/ ur boyfriend but "the sex is so good"... so u end up using them =T.
that's the problem w/ relationships these days... why buy the cow when u get the milk for free???
plus, u don't know how many partners that person had, if they had any diseases, etc etc...and if u break up, u'll just start the whole process again... whereas, if sex was not as important as matching personalities, being able to spend much time together, being happy together, loving each other for MORE than just the physical...eventually when u get Married, the sex will be Natural.. u know? i think this is ideal.... most likely than not many people have several partners before finding "the one"..but u have to realize that finding "the one" is in fact one of the most important goals in a person life!! therefore, this person's gotta be damn awesome for u to commit to.. so why have sex w/ just anyone unless u know he is for sure??
good luck, and just keep in mind, that sex confuses a lot of emotions...it's hard for a woman to separate physical from emotional.. for men it is quite separated!!!
2006-10-23 17:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is only sex. It has nothing to do with a relationship...as you will find once the guy's through with you. You might think this answer is rude and mean...but it's reality. Time to get real. If you wanna have sex, do it for the sex only! Don't even think you own the guy after you give it up. It so doesn't work that way.
2006-10-23 17:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex increases a relationship and it complicates things. There is never an easy answer. Be very sure of what you want before acting on it.
2006-10-23 17:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex will make the relationship get better. But if you are waiting till marriage to have sex. Then just wait. And if they relationshipe is not getting better leave. Cause they guy just want sex.
2006-10-23 17:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by MFC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends...if the relationship is good without sex I can't see it being anything but good, but if it is not ideal, it will be fun for a little while but then youve invested more of yourself into a doomed relationship. If you think sex is going to **poof** make everything good, there is no chance of that...
2006-10-23 17:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the relationship. normally if it would last without sex at all, then it would be better with sex. but if the other person just wants sex then it wouldn't make it better at all.
2006-10-23 17:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by sleepyme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having sex in a relationship is important but it is the real feelings of love that keeps the relationship, sex is not that important. communication , honesty trust make a real relationship.. too much sex sometimes gets boring..
2006-10-23 17:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋