my boyfriend broke up w/ me.its realy complicated and twisted ...HELP!!!?

Question

OMG.He broke up with me and was like, "hey, remember how we used to be friends and we used to talk more often? you know how we're girlfriend and boyfriend?Maybe we should go back to being just friends." LMFAO i was thinking ,"WHAT did he just ******* say?" Then i realized it and i walked away after standing there shoked. thank god the wind was blowing in my face so the tears on the inside couldnt come out. i went to trhe b-room, and told my friend. if it wasnt for her i would have been sobbing by now. then when i was sitting at a table, the tears came out. everyone asked me what was wrong, and i told some people who i trusted. i had to stop crying when i came out of the bathroo mor HE would have seen. And guess what??? I SEE HIM EVERYDAY. YEP. i have to, his mom drives us to friggin school somedays and my mom the other. We go in the SAME CAR! and the same bus. i cant do anything about it because i have no other way of getting to school and i cant miss the bus.WHAT DO I DO?P.S. im 13old

Answer 1

be friends with him.

Answer 2

I wouldn't want to repeat the first/main thing that everyone else said, because I suppose you hear this a lot (or you will, if you're going to talk about your emotional life in public.) But I have to say it. You are simply too young. No matter how physically or emotionally mature you are, 13 is not an appropriate age for relationships. Not serious ones anyway. Why? Because you just can't make them work at this age, because right now, romantic relationships just can't be stable and serious.
This is an unstable period for you. It shouldn't surprise you that he broke up with you, because (supposing that he's as young as you or at least close to your age), he's still pretty immature, undecided and unstable. If right now he says he likes you and he wants to be your boyfriend, and the next moment he says that he doesn't have any romantic feelings for you and he just wants to be your friend, it doesn't necessarily mean that he lied to you. No, it's just that his preferences, interests and opinions change.This is the period when your personality suffers the most important changes and your character features develop. So don't expect stability right now. You'll cry now and you'll be laughing your head off the next second. This is how it is.

And another thing you should remember when you have a crush on someone is that this period of your life, your age is meant for experiments and discovery, not for serious relationships.

My advice is not to worry about it. Believe me, you'll forget about him so fast you won't even realize when you've fallen in love with another boy. It hurts right now, but... no matter how old we are, we all have to go through some stages.

Answer 3

#1. You'll live. I promise, I've had my heart broken a million times and always thought it was the end, but always made it through.
#2. You don't need him. All you need right now are good friends who you are positive won't run their mouth back to the wrong people about how you really feel.
#3. Pretend you are fine, (this hurts him worse) and he will probably try to do hurtful things (let you see him with another girl, be mean, try to make you jealous, and probably act like he doesn't care) but the less you seem to care the more it will bother him. Push yourself to move on to other guys and hanging out with friends. Eventually, your heart will move on too. In the meanwhile while riding to school, for the first few days, dress your best, look hot, and seem confident and carefree (and happy).

Answer 4

You are only 13! That's to young for a boyfriend! Maybe he's not ready for that kind of a relationship. Just chill out kick back for a while and maybe in a few more years you can think about having a serious relationship.

Answer 5

Honey you have learned your first lesson in life and at work when you graduate. Its a term called "don't $hit the bed" . Now here is how that works. Next time you get a boyfriend, make sure he has no relatioin to you what so ever so when he is gone you dont have to see him. Thus your not sleeping in a bed full of $hit.

Answer 6

unfortunatly there is nothing you can do except to slowly get over it because it can't be a true relationship unless both people like each other. its not as awkward as you think. just go back to being friends. i no i am sounding mean but its not fair to make him be in a relationship that he doesn't want to be in. just remember the good times you had before you went out and go from there

Answer 7

You are so young that this is just a learning experience. Men suck, and the older you get the less they mature. You don't see it now, but trust me they never change. Here what you do, wear your CUTEST outfits, do your hair, and laugh a LOT with your friends like you don't have a care in the world. in fact, you're better off with out him (that's what we make him think). :) good luck, only you matter

Answer 8

That's messed up i just don't know what 2 say. That happened to me in the 6th grade but i just had 3 classes with him . I would just try to be friends and see what happens. I in 8th grade now and me and him r still buddys.
PS best of luck

Answer 9

pretty much in the same situation... i have to go to my exbf's house every wednesday cause i work with his brother on a community service thing :S all you have to do is keep him outta your mind, listen to music on the car, never look at him, being with him will serve as a vacccine; its a bad thing that helps you cure worse things... it helps getting used to seeing each other without causing much pain in the long run, life aint over for you and i many guys will come and go so try to keep a smile on, its hard(believe me i know) and its ok to cry every once in a while but you'll see, time heals

Answer 10

If he doesn't return your calls or texts or even talk to you, its been time to break up with him, whether he's cheating or not. Maybe he has already moved on and you're stuck wondering what's going on. Quit wasting your time

Answer 11

Well what can you do? I think you only have one option at this point, get over him and move on. You are young and have lots of boys in your future, dont waste time crying over him, you might miss the chance at love again.