ladies how would you feel is you saw your man get in a fight and he gets beat up....what will you think of him. would you dump him or still be with him???i always wondered this???
2006-10-23 10:36:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
say he got in a fight b/c self defense he was not the aggresor...
2006-10-23 10:50:38 · update #1
Generally, not good, BUT if it was to defend someone- a real good cause, then it would be better. Does he act in violence other times? If he does, dump him quick. If this was a once in a lifetime event, its more acceptable. I do hope you're asking about the fight itself and not about the fact that he got beat up--that would be too shallow.
2006-10-23 10:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by mc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there's a lot of "if's" here. Did he start the fight? Why? Was he being a dumbass? Screw him, I need a real man. Did someone else start it? Did my man do anything? Screw the other guy. I'd probably feel at least a little bad for him either way though.
2006-10-23 10:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Lady Beth*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my hubby got in a fight and was beaten up, I'd still be with him. Of course, I'd smack him in the head with a pan for getting in a fight in the first place, but there you have it. lol j/k I wouldn't be with someone who fought as just a matter of course. Most mature men don't fight unless given no other choice.
2006-10-23 10:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would sort of depend on why he got into the fight in the first place... I would most likely think he was immature for getting into a fight (because in most cases it's a stupid reason). Him winning or not would not make me break up with him. I would stay with him if he respected me, treated me right, was honest, and liked me for me.
2006-10-23 10:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i was the guy in said situation, i simply wouldn't lose. I know how to brawl and i brawl dirty. I figure the object of a fight is to extract myself from the fight with minimum damage to me and as limited casualties to the other combatants as possible. sometimes you have to maximise their casualties to get out of a situation. in most cases pepper spray does the trick. The other guy loses all desire to fight once you hose him down well.
2006-10-23 10:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by dread pirate lavenderbeard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whether he has a legitimate reason for fighting or not. And I wouldn't dump him if he gets beaten up. I would be by his side, comforting him if he fought for reasons such as self-defence.
2006-10-23 10:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want my man to get in a fight in the first place but that should determine if I care for him or not. If there is love, commitment, trust, and all that then it shouldn't matter if he got his *** kicked. Just know that he shouldn't get in that perdicament again.
2006-10-23 10:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be pissed that he got in a fight in the first place. But I would never leave him over it.. unless he did it everynight for a month and then I would have to call it quits.
2006-10-23 10:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... it is a little embarasing, but he is your man. Stick with him, don't leave because of something so simple. Fighting isn't everything. He is still the same person you were with before. Atleast he tried.
2006-10-23 10:46:47 · answer #9 · answered by sea shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he fighting over a video game or you? If he was fighting for what I felt was a just cause, then I would be with him forever. IF it was over something stupid, then I would definately have to look at him again.
2006-10-23 10:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by firelook 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋