2006-10-23 10:31:34 · 22 answers · asked by Addrienne S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
sorry i didn't tell you how old i am. im 13 i just turned 13 and people ask me if they can 'hit' and im like no. but there's this girl and she's like the girl that has done it ALL and i don't wanna be like her but she gets treated so different i guess you can say. and i wanna get treated like that but i don't want people to think im 'easy' or whatever.
2006-10-23 10:38:57 · update #1
All I can say is HAHAHAHAHA!
2006-10-23 11:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by SmashJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Addrienne--
Is there someone that is special to you? If so, if the person cares about you then he won't be putting pressure on you to do anything that you are not ready to do. And being 13, regardless of how you are feeling, you are too young. I was 15 and regret it. If you wait until you *know* that the time is right, you may not regret your decision. If you are wanting to just because "everyone else is", then wait. That isn't a reason and you will definitely regret it. That being said I know that when you are a teen you think you know so much, and regardless of what anyone tells you, you will do what you want. I know I did. My advice: just wait until you feel it in your heart that it is the right time. And don't worry about what other people think about you--I know that is hard being in high school--but try to keep your head up. Your "innocent" reputation will take you a lot farther one day. Good luck!
2006-10-23 10:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The v-card is a theoretical element. don't sense like you actually lost something, because you have not (pretty in case you semi-did-it). injuries ensue. do not enable those different harsh commenters convey you down. yet in case you've beloved him for 2 years, then possibly you want him more advantageous than you imagine you do. 2 years is a lengthy time period to planned on a similar man or woman. This 'mistake' you made might want to be an outstanding segue into understanding you do love him.
2016-12-05 03:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! You are 13 and want to "experience" so you can
be cool like the "easy" girls. If you have decided that you
want to be known as the school tramp and easy pick-up then go ahead. But understand that once you give up your "v-card" it won't grow back. Please talk with your mom about these "budding feelings". Don't be in a rush to
grow up. Enjoy being 13 and wait until you are a grown-up and are in love. If you want respect from a guy then
you will cool your jets and WAIT. 13 is TOO young.
Much too young. You are still a child.
2006-10-23 10:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I hope there is someone special you want to give your "v card" to. The first time does hurt a little, but at the same time can feel really great. You have to relax and let yourself enjoy it. It gets better with experience. It helps if you have a boyfriend to experience dif. things and discover what you like and dislike (sexually).
That said, you should wait. You don't want to do it too young. You might create a bad reputation for yourself, and guys your age are jerks and will use you for sex. Nothing good will come of it at your age. I know it's tempting, but I have two friends who had a baby before they could even drink alcohol. Please be careful.
2006-10-23 10:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by Lesley W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in a rush to loose that "card" You can seriously mess up the rest of your life trying to grow up too fast. I was 20 before I lost it and it wasn't in the best way. All my experiences since have reflected on that first time. Make sure it is someone you really love or you will feel used and have a lot of regret afterwards and for years to come.
2006-10-24 18:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how "young" you are, but it's always a good idea to wait, even if you are "older". The consequences of getting pregnant are too great to go into detail, as are all the social diseases. The emotional aspect will take its toll as well. You will feel used and in time, you will wish you had waited.
As to your questions, yes, it will hurt. And no, it isn't good. You may want to play at being a grown-up, but the wait is well worth it.
2006-10-23 10:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by Ceci 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is WAIT!!! wait for the right guy, and the right reasons, I regret doing it so young and I was 15!
13 is way too young and you dont want THAT kind of attention this early.
Remember that pregnancy is a risk, so are STD's - you are so young to be worrying about all these things. Enjoy life - Sex brings all sorts of complications you dont need - trust me!
2006-10-23 10:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by gaiagurl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!!! You wrote that you don't want to be considered ''easy'' and if you do it, people will think that you are. And besides, why would you want to be like that girl anyways? Just be youself, and mr. right will come along. This girl can't be that great anyways. She's probably called sl*t behind her back. You don't want that do you? And if you use a tampon for your periods then it won't hurt that bad, but if you don't then it might hurt a little. Good luck!
2006-10-26 11:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by gene9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to wait if you are young. Make it special, I lost mine when I was 14 and I really regret it and the things I done. And plus all the diseases now out there, watch out and be careful. And yes it hurts really bad and most likely you will bleed
2006-10-23 10:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by church_gore 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should wait until u no that u found the right one cause once ur "v" is gone you will never get it back but when you think u found that one make him use a condom trust me i no i was 14 when i got pregnant and 15 when i had my baby be careful don't do nothing u don't want to do
2006-10-26 07:43:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋