I know I love him. But everytime I've come close to saying it I haven't. I'm secure knowing that he feels the same, its just we've never said it to eachother. I know he does not want to scare me off (I have commitment issues) is why he has not expressed his feelings verbally. Its only when I'm near him and about to blurt it out, I freak... when we're apart, I feel it and desperately want to tell him... how can I overcome this? Should I even be concerned? I don't want to wait so long, that he gets frustrated. (Dated for 6 months, been fighting with myself about telling him for a month)
2006-10-23 10:27:34 · 7 answers · asked by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello, Well we know that you love him,and if he's in touch with your feelings enough to not say the love word- then you both allready know how you feel about each other. But you know what? you need to tell him sometime.When you speak the words while looking him in the eyes you have done one of the most beautiful things in the world, confessed your love for that special person in your life! Remember love isn't bondage - it's connecting with someone who should care about you more than anything in the world...and without love , we might not have to answer to anybody...except the loneliness in our hearts & the emptiness in our souls.Trust him & take a chance..because love is worth the risk over & over again...we were made for love & finding that kind of love that is special & last a lifetime can be our greatest treasure! ...I'm hoping the best for you ...ok? good luck!
2006-10-23 10:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think saying I love you or kissing or anything has a "proper time"
Let your heart inspire you.
Generally I think 6 months is a bit soon. But everyone is on different levels when it comes to love, so if you mean it, then say it.
2006-10-23 10:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to stop overthinking the issue. Words are meaningless until we give them power. Maybe, considering he knows your issues, you could give him a card or letter? I know that sounds kind of lame, but sometimes writing is a good way to ease into the situation.
2006-10-23 10:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to tell somone you love him/her the first time. you are not the only one. this is whats love all about.
when you see them your heart pop, you cant breath, your mouth just shut and locked.
dont force yourself, tell him when you think its the right time and its comfort for both you and him.
2006-10-23 10:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by TN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you had sex with him ?
If not, why not ?
If you are having trouble verbally...
Try a lot of casual body contact...
Touch him, brush up against him, walk close to him
holding his arm against your breast...
Body contact says a lot....
2006-10-23 10:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him a gift and attach a card that says I luv you, that way you say and when you see him again it'll be easier to say to his face
2006-10-23 10:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him now. Why keep it any longer?
2006-10-23 10:30:18 · answer #7 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋