I'm thinking he may betrying to make himself look more important or more popular??
2006-10-23 10:19:07 · 16 answers · asked by tyler b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes-normal-don't worry-it resolves itself most times
if not -you get a politician in the family
2006-10-23 10:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those who brag or tell fictional stories, do it for attention. People like that have low self-esteem and have to do things like that to bring it up. Unfortunately although it is not harmful if done sporadically, frequent bragging may lead to the lier compulsion.
Talk with him that misrepresentation in long run will make him less popular.
2006-10-23 10:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's normal. He has low self-esteem and is trying to boost his confidence. Unless he's making up harmful lies, there is no harm in his fantasizing. His dreams may come true one day if he's fabricating the life he wishes he had. If you are his parent, I would suggest you gently explain this to him. Emphasize that he should not be making up stories that involve others. He should not be lying and hurting others to gain respect, power, or recognition. Point out other ways for him to do that; point out his talents, achievements and good points.
2006-10-23 10:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for someone who may feel left out of things. Maybe it's his way of trying to make friends and be popular. It isn't normal, but it is sad. Why don't you try to overlook this and be his friend Tyler. That would also be abnormal as kids can be so cruel. Dare to be different.
2006-10-23 10:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by Cinderella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes when I was 14...I caught a 68" muskie, I knocked out a guy with one punch, I hit 20 homeruns in one season and I personally saved the pope's life.....
And sadly...none of it helped a bit in being popular.... but yeah it's normal.
probably starved for affection and friendship...like I was.
2006-10-23 10:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most teenage boys will do this. Especially if they are insecure. I wouldn't make a big deal of it just ignore it and try and find the route of the problem if you care for him.
2006-10-23 10:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by soma_rich 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14? Heck, I'm 23 and still make up stories about activities. Don't worry about it, I did it and still do. I am sure that other guys can relate that they just want to seem like they are cooler than they are.
2006-10-23 10:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by Helpful Chad 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, my step brother and my sister are both 14 and belive me they always lie espeshialy my brother, and I think he hust tries to sound cooler than my sister just to show off and get my other brothers his attencion, and I think he just likes the pleasure he gets from telling lies.
2006-10-23 11:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by MayMay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bob
2006-10-23 10:20:13 · answer #9 · answered by iwbbwym 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at that age yes,, its very common, you want to have something to help you stand out in your group of friends or students,, and sometimes kids will fathom up a figment of their imagination and make it real in order to impress or just stand on a higher plateau,,
2006-10-23 10:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by John C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋