Well my bf got a letter from some guy saying that i was cheating on him and htat i was with some other guy. and the letter kept going on and on. Well i soon realize that the person who sent the letter was my brother because only my dad mom and him knew who i was seeing. I told my bf but i dont how to make him believe me that it was him and i dont know how to make my brother tell that is him because i know it was him . His attitude change when i started seeing my bf. I cant believe my own family would do this to me i think he has issues with peole being happy because his past relationships havent worked out. My brother when I was in h.s had friend always keeping an eye on me or he would send me emails saying things that if i said somthing he would tell my parents but he denies it.I really like my bf alot and i dont want to loose him. I think it was really childish of him to do that to me. I am 18 about to be 19 and my bro is 23. I need help what can i do to get my bf back ??Help me!!!
2006-10-23 10:16:23 · 8 answers · asked by Marcy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your boyfriend doesn't know you enough to trust you and believe you when you are telling the truth maybe he is not the right person for you.
Also put yourself in his position, ask yourself what would you do? Whatever the answer is try it... and then try something else, and then try again. Eventually maybe he will appreciate all your efforts and come around again.
Or maybe you will lose him forever and in that case it just wasn't meant to be.
Good luck
2006-10-23 10:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same exact thing happended to me 3 years ago with my BF. I'm 24 and he's 29 and have been together for 4 years now. We had been together for 4 months when i did the same thing and my sister told on me. Since it was my own family my BF never believed me no matter what i say to him. He loves me very much and he's over it now but it really sucked back then though. I don't think that your boyfriend will believe anything you have to say to him especially since you told him it was your brother who sent him that letter. Next time- break up wtih your BF beforte you do anything stupid because even your family will turn their back on you. If youd o't want to break up-- i suggest you don't tell anyone if you ever do anything stupid jsut keep it to yourself. I don't support cheaters because it ruins peoples relationships and hurts others feelings but- be smart next time.. Best thing to do is breakup.. The past 2 years after the incident with my BF have been really REALLY hard! if your BF loves you and is willing to forgive you he will stay with you but from now on he will question everything you do, who you talkt o etc. Your life will be sucky but eventually he'll get over it if he loves you and you don't screw up again. Good luck to you and stop cheating on people it's not nice!
2006-10-23 17:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend loves and respects you, he will believe you. You have nothing to worry about, Share a love that cannot be broken, love that lets no-one get between you. Tell your boyfriend how you feel.
If you feel the need, email your bro an email saying hope you are happy he is gone thanks to your letter, see if he buries himself in a reply that will give your boyfriend some proof.
Regardless, that is messed up. Your bro is way out of line, very immature, and needs to grow up!
2006-10-23 17:22:15 · answer #3 · answered by BlondeBarbie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is a messed up situation. But how can you prove it was your brother? I think you need to get away from your family, or specifically your brother as soon as possible cos the damage has already been done here.
2006-10-23 17:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what you have said here...I think I'd be telling brother...Its none of your F**king bidness. As far as this guy goes. I'd slow down. Don't panic. And explain what has happened in the past with over protective brother. Hope that it werks out for you.
2006-10-23 17:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your BF the truth about your brother. If your relationship is meant to be, he will understand and you'll soon be together again. Good luck!
2006-10-23 17:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by J C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think if your bf dosent believe you well then he is not a very good boyfriend
2006-10-23 17:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by h0tstuff94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is so lame, stupid and immature...and so are you!
2006-10-23 17:20:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋