My boyfriend and i have been together for a year. hes told me that he loves me and i believed him. now i dont know what to think. i havnt seen him in a whole week and ive only talked to him a little bit. he says, "i am really busy but i really dont want to loose you....." and so i was like "ok? what do you want to do? the decision is up to you" and he said, "i dont know what im gonna do. Do you want me to break up with you or somethin?!?!" so i said, "NO! i want to be with you. m willing to try. i just want you to break up with me and stop leading me on if you dont want to be with me anymore! I love you but im not so sure you still love me."
2006-10-23 10:01:39 · 19 answers · asked by cali_baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
men r bast***ds
2006-10-23 10:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by Zifikos 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, you must give a person a little space. a lesson i just recently learned after 10 years of experience in relationships. i found the man of my dreams for once and i wanted to be around him constantly. through this we started growing apart because we see each other everyday. he works comes straight home. i work and come straight home. no hanging with friends or alone time. sometimes it makes the relationship bad. understand if you are a part for a week and you were in a relationship for a year then absence makes the heart grow fonder. if it ain't broke don't try to fix it because you'll end up like me. trying everyday to build where we left off. call him and apologize first of all, then you need to reassure him that you love him and you are there regardless of the problems or space you have between each other. a good man is hard to find. if he is telling you that he doesn't want to loose you, then why push him away. be patient. trust me soon you will be together again and you have a lot of making up to do. good luck...
2006-10-23 10:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by slimchuckie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn that a week is nothing in the grand scheme of things. Its hard to get through but its 7 days. Not forever. Maybe he has a lot going on and just honestly doesn't have much time other than to eat and sleep. You should give him the benefit of the doubt and just let him know that you miss him and whenever he has the time to call you you would love to hear from him. And he needs to let you know as often as possible that even though he has to do these other things he'd rather be with you. Just give him some real time to get through whatever this is. A week is nothing in reality.
2006-10-23 10:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find out what he is "really busy" doing and see if it makes sense to you. He might be tired of the relationship, but doesn't know how to break it off. If he truly cares about you, he'd call you at least once a day and tell you what is keeping him so busy and telling you that he misses you.
2006-10-23 10:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by MyPreshus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, the drama. What part of "I am really busy but i really dont want to loose you" didn't you understand? Yes, you were wrong. He was honest and told you the truth and you basically said he was lying and started some crap about breaking up.
You should dump him- he's really busy and honest and you can't handle that.
2006-10-23 10:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every guy say they miss you and love you when you are nude, but they say the same thing to an other chick when they are nude too. If he love you he should care your feelings more, or did you put too much hard feeling on him about both of you not seeing each other?
but it sound like he dont give a $hit about you, guys dont like to say break up. They always want the girls to say break up.
but an other point of view is
i use to live in vancouver and my gf use to live in Toronto
thats 3 hours of flight apart, we see each other once every 6 month if we are lucky.
its about trust between 2 of you.
but i think he just want to break up
2006-10-23 10:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by TN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is wanting to break up and doesn't want to be the bad guy... give it some time and see... if you don't break up with him... and if that's is what he wants he''l do it himself soon... I hope I am wrong and that he is just busy right now like he said... But let him do it... don't let him off easy... hope this helps
2006-10-23 10:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to take a break. Date other people. If it was real, you will end up back together. Don't wait around for him. Life is too short, and you could miss out on your soulmate while you're waiting.
2006-10-23 10:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he really is busy. A week isn't that long. Give the guy a break, when it goes to a month. Dump him.
2006-10-23 10:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to really find out if he is that busy, that he can not find time for you. If he is, you need to accept it and work with him to remain in the relationship. If not and he is just leading you on, get rid of the fool.
2006-10-23 10:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, just calm down. Do not push him. Leave space to him. He just wants to think, that is all. And even if he does not love you anymore think that there are so beatiful gues that want to give everything to be with you and have your love. So do not cry and try to understand that life is so beautiful and you should not waste it in stupid boyfriends.
2006-10-23 10:07:07 · answer #11 · answered by seriousgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋