Why did he make dating a chore, relationships tough and sex so much fun? It seems like he would have done it the other way around?
2006-10-23 09:55:24 · 25 answers · asked by Katy_Kat 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
He wanted sex to be the reward once you know the person well...He has reasons and cheap sex isnt a lasting relationship
2006-10-23 09:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 4⤋
Why is it that everyone blames God for what we choose to do? The only part I agree with is that He did make sex to be pleasurable and fun, but within a marriage. The relationships being a chore and tough is because He made us all individuals will a free will and not cloned robots. It is our differences that make it challenging, and challenging doesn't have to be bad. It should make us grow as a person instead of getting everything we want.
Are you really saying that sex should be a chore and relationships easy? That would make sex something terrible and relationships a bore. No thank you! I like things Just the way God made them. He is the mastermind, it's us who can't seem to figure out how good it all is.
2006-10-23 10:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God didn't make dating a chore and relationships tough people do that all on there own but he did say come together often so we are not tempted the reason relationships are so tough is because people don't wait until they find there soul mates before they get involved this is the same reason why there are so many divorces
2006-10-23 10:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by jamnjims 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not all are meant to marry and have children. There are plenty of people who want neither. And that is actually more of what God wants for us, because marriage more often times than not pulls us away from Him. God didnt make relationships complicated, man did. All relationships, including friendship, are hard work. Everyone knows that. Sex within the boundaries of marriage is pleasureable because it satisfies that part of us to have intimate relationships. It also says somewhere that a man and a woman will want for eachother but never fully be satisfied, they will always want more. But realize that childbirth, which generally comes after sex, is not so pleasureable. That is our curse for not obeying. We need to realize the only one who can quench our thirst for wanting is God Himself.
2006-10-23 10:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by Hurray for the ANGELS! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you only need to have sex to procreate. All things in nature want to survive, and procreation is a way to ensure survival. Maybe that's why there are so many cases of infidelity.
2006-10-23 09:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
following god is hard, the temptations come from us not from god. he offers perfection but it is human nature to lust and seek all the negative aspects of a relationship. sex is cool but sex with someone you truly love is so much more perfect. dating is not a chore if you love the person and relationships are easier with someone you truly love. the devil is here to tempt and lead us astray with wanting sex with multiple people etc. he doesn't want to us happy in a loving relationship either. god offers free will, choose wisely, god bless.
2006-10-23 10:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by fenian1916 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God works using love
never mind
2006-10-23 10:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sin messed up the relationship btwn God and man and btwn man and women. what was/is meant to be the consummation(spiritually- the 2 shall becom one) of a perfect relationship has now been turned into a tool of wickedness
2006-10-23 10:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by bravo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He didn't make everything complicated we did after the fall, we made up our own customs, sex was solely created for marriage and to inimate with have children. sex was mmade to be beautiful for man and wife we created the diversity with our lust for things and enjoyment and pleasure.
2006-10-23 10:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by Mary S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought dating was a man made invention. Relationships again have to do with people.....and yes you are right...most sex is fun...but I have to admit not all...
2006-10-23 09:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by chico2149 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dating and relationships are to weed out the scum...if it were easy, you'd just fall for anyone, instead of the right person for you. Sex is made to be a pleasurable gift for a husband and wife to share.
2006-10-23 09:58:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋