or does it take time for the girl to no the boy before she asks the boy out?
2006-10-23 09:53:12 · 17 answers · asked by aodhan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can be any one/a mixture of them.
2006-10-23 09:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you my friend, but none of your guesses are right! The only thing that will make a girl ask a boy is the girl herself. It's the same for the boy asking the girl really. The only thing that stands in the way is the posibility of rejection. What you are trying to work out is what do girls fancy in a man, and that differs from girl to girl. Just be clean cut and well groomed...
2006-10-23 09:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rick R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, and for a lot of other girls I know, personality! Girls tend to be a lot less shallow than boys, not that all boys are shallow but most are.
A guy can be REALLY hot but if he's shallow, pretentious, arrogant, a player etc. etc. those are all signs that are instant turn offs! In my opinion don't try to win girl's hearts by getting ripped at the gym. Just be confident, be a good conversationalist, and be yourself!
2006-10-23 10:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by brunettegb 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Approachability is the only requirement for girls to ask a boy out. If you seem friendly and approachable, they are more likely to ask you out. But even in these modern times I'm afraid most girls still expect the guy to ask them!
2006-10-23 09:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by sarkyastic31 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am different from most girls but i might say like o that boy is cute but i wont ask him out i say personality i get crushes a lot on some of my friends that are guys because they are nice and just like me. but i say if hes nice to me and is a christen and makes good grades then i would like o know him better but i don't ask guys out they have to ask me out. even if there to scared.
2006-10-23 10:06:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desperation
2006-10-23 10:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think it depends on your age, when i was a teenager, i went for looks (i wanted one of the cute guys) but as i have got older i have gone more for the person as a whole, looks are important, but personality is more important to me. I do have to know the lad as a friend before i have a relationship too
2006-10-23 09:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by zeldieuk2002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only desperate, needy girls ask boys out. Let the boys do the asking. Don't cheapen yourself.
2006-10-23 20:25:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it isnt just one thing, its the whole package!!
you wouldnt want to be with someone even if they were the most fantastic person youd ever met, if you felt physically repullsed by them!
its the same the other way as well, if they are absolutely gorgeous but were thick as sh1t, arrogant and a complete bastard, you wouldnt want to be with them!
well, i hope you wouldnt want to be with them!!
its a special mix of everything that makes them attractive, and it has nothing to do with penis or wallet size!!xx
2006-10-23 10:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs Chicagosgirl!! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for me i look at looks first (but hu doesn't) then i get to know the person find out wot he is like and if i like his personality i would ask him out. but usally i wait till the guy askes me out he has to make the first move, money really doesn't come into it for me :)
hope that helps xxxxxxxxxxx
2006-10-23 11:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by xx-bbz-xx 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
personality
2006-10-23 10:00:33 · answer #11 · answered by lovely g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋