Ok.. i am lonely and i am shy but i dont know why i love every girl who talks to me, and i can't talk to girls, so any way i could get a girl to talk to me...??
2006-10-23 09:50:56 · 12 answers · asked by NUBBERZ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all you might want to pick only one girl instead of falling in love with every girl that talks to you. Second, when you do find one that truly makes you happy, just be yourself and ask her out when you feel it's time and when you feel completely comfortable with her.
2006-10-23 09:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by Unsure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you find a girl that thinks like you do, then don't try for a girl that you can make fall in love with you. When you find a girl, listen to her. Try to do the things she likes to do and go from there. Making a girl happy is the best way to have her fall for you.
2006-10-23 16:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by Manna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone love you. You'll come off as needy and desperate, and you will annoy people.
To talk to a girl, compliment her on something and follow up with open-ended questions (require moe than yes or no answers). Get her to tell you her opinion, thoughts, and what she would do in a situation. Find out how she feels about things, and ask her what she thinks. Make positive observations, and keep asking her stuff.
Shyness makes you look unfriendly and aloof, and even stuck up. People fear what you are thinking of them, because you are keeping it all to yourself. They don't realize you have social anxiety, fear, and discomfort.
Force your focus outward onto them, rather than you own fear. Stop being self-absorbed. Notice people, and the ways they try to get noticed. Give them your attention, flattery, and positive regard.
2006-10-23 17:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make someone fall in love with you.Find someone you think is right,get to know them,make yourself feel comfortable around them,that will build your confidence with all girls/women/w/e Dont just try be with someone because they are there,you should want to be with someone because you think you love them and they feel the same
2006-10-23 16:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by kez_124 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone fall in love with you. Grow up , be a man then see what happens
2006-10-23 16:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never 'make' a girl fall in love with you. don't try to fall in love.
2006-10-23 16:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wowzers!why not just fall for the right one!trust me im pretty sure that you can make up your mind and follow what your needs are!
2006-10-23 16:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by Lizzie101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont love her, you lust her, you're lonley like you stated. Just be patient, and not too needy, that's what scaring them off.
2006-10-23 16:53:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not in love but lust....Don't act like someone you're not....be yourself
2006-10-23 17:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by Immortal Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself(",) girl dont want guys who are full of themselves... just be honest and sweet... and be thoughtful too...
2006-10-23 17:14:50 · answer #10 · answered by yuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋