Is it normal to be 30 and have never had a girlfriend?

Answer 1

use it or loose it

Answer 2

It is not abnormal because so much depends on a person's situation and lifestyle. An extreme example would be a monk. In more mundane circumstances I would say that many people have friends who are female but have not had relationships with them. It really depends on how the person feels about the situation. If they feel it is abnormal then they have the opportunity to change it.

Be brave and ask. Start by getting to know the person then go from there. It is a rare person who can go from zero to a full blown relationship the first time the meet someone.

Answer 3

Generally it is not "normal" in the sense that the vast majority of 30 year olds have had a GF at some stage. But the problem you ll face is, the older u get and the more isolated from this the harder it may become to break this cycle of not finding a GF. If its a problem talking to women or something then you need to kerb it now or you may be single when your 40. Sorry to depress but if you wanna lady then you gotta do something proactive.

Answer 4

Heck...it just means you probably been busy with school, work and life....what is normal these days any way? I am 32 and have never been married and that feel a little abnormal....

Try ask people you like out if you are shy or try going some place where you would met someone you like...keep busy and be hopeful. Good luck.

Answer 5

Your obviously a bit of a jack the lad.
Theres nothing wrong with not ever haven a girlfriend but your missing out big time on love

Answer 6

Not to answer your question with a question, but do you have problems finding women who interest you? Maybe you are looking in the wrong places for dates. You need to answer the following for yourself: What kind of woman am I really looking for? Party animal, casual date, or serious commitment? Then find what it is that defines you and who you are. Then find what it is you are looking for in a woman. If religion defines you look for her at church. If music defines you look for her where you go to enjoy music. And so on. Find her in the place where you would like to find her. And take it slow. Life is not like a 2 hour movie unless that is the kind of life you want. Listen to her as well as talk. Most women want someone who will listen to them and care about the things they care about. When what she cares about is what you care about then you have a match. Good luck.

Answer 7

What is normal? It's not average, no. My brother is almost 30 and has never had a girl either, you should hook up with him.

Answer 8

i would say its unusual.you need to get yourself out more and met new people if in fact you do want a girlfriend. maybe have a look at the way you dress how you carry yourself can anything be improved?new hobbies? maybe you need a confidenc boost. get your friends or family to tell you your best and worst features and work on them.

Answer 9

not at all even cliff richards had a girl friend once upon ago but if its that bad go to the night club in the uk as ladys hear are easy and would love to teach you how they want it!! just take £50 for drinks or go to a brothel

Answer 10

it is possible yes, my sister is 40 and she has not dated in 9 years, it's true, she's been hurt so bad in the past that she's convinced she will get hurt again, i keep telling her that not all men are bad and that the ones who were interested are nice guys and would take care of her, but she's having none of it, i s'pose she's set in her ways now, but there is hope, she just needs to start trusting again

Answer 11

not really - if u are looking for that "special someone" u are never going to find her if u just keep waiting. u have to go out and find her. the world is too big to just rely on destiny or faith or whatever. and no one will ever find you if you are sitting alone in the corner. they will look for the guy on the dance floor, so to speak... go for it and live life.