My bestfriend is also my girlfriend and we both made the decision to have sex. Is there something wrong with this. Do you think we should wait, if we should do it at all? We both want to but I need your opinions.
2006-10-23 09:39:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
15 about to be 16
2006-10-23 09:43:46 · update #1
Are you financially capable of supporting a child if "something happens"? Probably not, so I say you're not old enough. Do you know how to be responsible and are you without a doubt going to be responsible 100% of the time? If you have to ask, you need to wait. I'm married and of course I'd say I'm old enough, but we are even very careful because we arent ready for children, but we could and would care of one, because we know we are taking a risk each time.
2006-10-23 09:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by rdnkchic2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should do it when you're absolutely ready and with the right person. Especially when this is your first time, you need to do it with the right person. I would tell you to wait until you're married, but face it ... it's hard :)
So, I guess ... maybe I should suggest you wait until you're both in love in a good relationship and then have sex. Trust me, having sex with someone you love is much better than with stranger. That way you don't lose your self-sense and don't feel like being used.
Good luck and use protectioN!
2006-10-23 16:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by Nicegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is a personal decision. Not one that should made as a pact between friends. Its not something to take lightly. I would at least wait until you are an adult.
2006-10-23 16:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by takeisha_03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i think u should wait til marriage but everyone ignores that so i think maybe 16 or 17 might be a good age to start having sex
2006-10-23 16:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by bigboss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, by the sounds of it, you are to young, because of the simple fact, you are asking a question like this. If you have to ask, you are too young. You should know if it is the right age when it happens, but dont rush into things.
2006-10-23 16:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by traveling_soldier6784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your too young; don't take the chance of ruining your life for something that will be pretty meaningless at such a young age.
2006-10-23 17:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by Rick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no age... it's just whenever you're ready, just be smart about it. think about it for a few days first.
2006-10-23 16:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you both? That' the question.
2006-10-23 16:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by trueangel121301 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal beleif is that you should wait until marriage.
2006-10-23 16:41:23 · answer #9 · answered by nicholaswright2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,,, i figure if you have to ask a bunch of people , your probably Way too young....
2006-10-23 16:44:30 · answer #10 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋