So here’s the story one of my friends got drunk and slept with a guy for the first time. It was this total jerk on the football team. She only told her best friend because she thought that she could trust her, but now her friend and the jerk are telling everyone. She’s so crushed it’s so sad I want to help her but I don’t know how. HELP!
2006-10-23 09:36:39 · 7 answers · asked by mellow_musicfreak 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So here’s the story one of my friends got drunk and slept with a guy for the first time. It was this total jerk on the football team. She only told her best friend because she thought that she could trust her, but now her friend and the jerk are telling everyone. She’s so crushed it’s so sad I want to help her but I don’t know how. HELP!
No seriously it was my friend i wasn't their other wise it probley wouldn't have happened.
K Don't be a jerk and i'm not a whore and neither is she!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-23 10:05:43 · update #1
Well, there's nothing you can do really ...
I mean, once it's done ... then it's done.
That best friend is some kind of friend huh?
Well either way, the total jerk probably told everyone anyway if the best friend didn't.
What you can do is just stand by her, maybe shoulder to cry on?
Trust me, things like this will go away eventually. Don't tell her that it's her fault or whatever, she doesn't need to be judged and I think she probably learns from this mistake anyway.
2006-10-23 09:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by Nicegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the childish part of me wants to say make up a story about the best frnd and the guy to get back at them....but I am 30 now...so my best advice is to be there for her whenever she needs you and try to set the record straight somehow with out making her look bad for being drunk and all and turn it around on him for being a jerk and spreadin the word about what happened
2006-10-23 09:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is nothing i can say all it is is girl crap. girls will do this to girls.so all u can do is lend a shoulder out when she needs someone to cry one always be there for her and tell her that her bff is not really not her bff. good luck
2006-10-23 09:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by crazzykitty19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to spread a roumor that he has a small penis and shrunkin balls due to steroid use. That should work just fine. :) Thats what I would do.
2006-10-23 09:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find a way to make them think it was i lie
2006-10-23 09:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you will be there for her and to watch her drinking
2006-10-23 09:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by sharkmann25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her know that you are there for her, day or night.
2006-10-23 09:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by babybeast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋