theres this guy that likes me and we went on a cruise w/ a bunch of our friends and while we were at a movie he was putting his arm around me and stuff and trying to touch my leg...you know the usual...and im getting mixed signals from him i mean i wanna tell him i like him to and go out w/ him but other times he avoids me...
is this strange??? what should i do?
2006-10-23 09:28:30 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He seems to be laying it on pretty thick. Maybe he's avoiding you because you don't seem to be picking up on all his 'subtle hints' so he doesn't want to smother you with anything he's not sure you want. He's giving you the go ahead so if you want to 'be' with him, then you need to do the same for him and start letting him know that you're up for it.
2006-10-23 09:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not strange! maybe he is waiting to get a signal from you! i mean he's making all the moves and sounds like you haven't done anything to let him know that you want be more too. so next time whether he's acting strange or not and make a move on him like never before that will definately send the message to him that you want him. dont be scared because all the signals are there on his part.now its your turn and hes probably waiting.
2006-10-23 09:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is obviously just trying to bag an easy catch. He seems to only want you when it is convenient for him! This is a bad situation to get into. You really have to make him work a little harder before he should be able to get anywhere near your body like that. Make him buy you things, etc. If you really do like him, you need to play it cool like he is doing (i.e. be standoff-ish), and make him regret the times he is not with you or paying attention to your needs. Good luck at luring in the big catch!
2006-10-23 09:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You went on a cruise with a guy and you both did not do anything with each other, that is kind of strange...
2006-10-23 09:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want a relationship with you that everyone will know about. If I were you, I would call him, make a point to *single* him out when you and your friends are *all* together and talk to just him, flirt with him openly infront of others. And see what he does then, or says to you. Then you will know if he just wanted a *secret* fling with you, or to really have a relationship with you. Good luck. Blessed be
2006-10-23 09:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from experiance since this just happened to me with my ex-boyfriend...well we were together for only a week and it was a total blow-off because he would be all touchy and happy one day and the next he'd ignore me or not even talk to me..the only thing he wanted from me was to get at me..if u know what i mean...so the best advice i can give u is to get to know him a bit better and then decide if he's ur kind of guy...GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-23 09:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He's acting like a kid who doesn't know what he wants nor how to go about getting it.
Find a respectful young man who asks your PERMISSION before touching you, and wants to meet the folks.
You want to find a KEEPER, not a cheaper!
2006-10-23 09:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the experience at the cruise might be exciting for both and when you are on that excitment you might want to let go your natural instinct , and that's nice but remember you are on a boat that will stop on diferent ports and on one of those ports he can step out of your life.
2006-10-23 09:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just be after you for sex. You can tell him that you like him, but he also may be avoiding you because he is scared and nervous and fears rejection. Just tell him and hope for the best.
2006-10-23 09:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by Wookie on Water 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably thinks the same thing and is scared to say so. If he was touching you and sober at the same time, it's in the bag.
2006-10-23 09:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋