Ok, so I've always known this guy in my German class. I've always saw him, but never this way before. I have also had crushes on guys before, but I've never felt this way about anyone before.
Also, another guy asked me out while he was listening. I said I already had a boyfriend, and I do, but if this special guy (Lets call him Jake) asked me, I would dump my other boyfriend.
I think about Jake all the time, and I want to be with him SO BADLY! Please give me advice. What if he thinks I am attached to my other boyfriend and really does like me?
2006-10-23 09:26:21 · 22 answers · asked by iheartdropdead 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him
2006-10-23 09:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Pizza Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have feelings for another guy then the right thing to do is to leave the guy that you are already with. It's not fair to him. Also, when my daughter wants to ask a guy out that she had feelings for she would have a friend go and talk to him about her and see what his thoughts on her were about and wheter or not he liked her. Or, you can always try talking to him yourself. That would be the best thing to do. Break up with your current boyfriend infront of the guy you like, if you want him to know that you are single. Do things to get him to see you in a different lite. Wear your cutest outfits, and do your hair a cute way. Try sitting next to him in class and try to answer as many questions as you can or if he is really good at speaking German, try asking alot of questions about how to do something, then try asking him for help in the class. After you guys spend some alone time together you guys will get to know each other a lot better and maybe then the ice will break.
Good luck with the guy..!!
2006-10-23 16:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by Brenda H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously don't care enough about your present boyfriend if your eyes are straying. I suggest you do him a favor and break up with him. It's not fair to him to keep him hanging while your looking for someone else. Also then you would be free to pursue Jake. You could even mention in front of him to someone else that you broke up with your boyfriend.
I know this wont get me points but girls like you are selfish and you probably dont deserve Jake either. Quit being selfish and break up with the boyfriend you dont really care about. He can do way better than you.
2006-10-23 16:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a boyfriend you have to make a choice. if you start talking to 'jake' behind your boyfriends back, and things delevope you become a cheater. When 'jake' finds out, and he will, he will probably think you would cheat on him too. if you want a chance at a relationship with him, take a break from your bf. Then ask jake to hang out or get something to eat after class one day, and causally mention how nice it is to be single again.
2006-10-23 16:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, if i was in your situation i would end things with your present boyfriend...it is clear to me that you have strong feelings for someone else and therefore, the relationship isn't meant to be. As for," Jake," take things slowly and get to know him a bit more...ask for his email, phone number and find reasons to text him such as queries about your German homework...take things slowly and then suggest going out...don't officially call it a date though- wait and see where things lead..!! Always remember this quote, which i read the other day,"Shoot for the moon, even if you miss u'll land among the stars." Hope that helps... :):)!!
2006-10-23 16:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbell315 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out on a limb and ask him out already. It gets really frustrating when, as a guy, you are sitting there wondering whether to ask a girl out, while the girl does feels the same way. Someone should act and make the first move! Just lay the cards down on the table and go for it. You certainly have nothing to lose. Good luck!
2006-10-23 16:29:33 · answer #6 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be freindly and up front with him. Tell him exactly what you like about him. Watch him closely when you do this. If he withdraws, forget him, it's not real. If he is drawn to you, then chat him up. Get to know him more. Eventually you might come to realize that he is not what you thought. That is the test for you. Most men are phoney dweebs and not worth a squat behind the bushes.
2006-10-23 16:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by estee.tabernac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all break up with your current boyfriend, it is not fare to him. Then you can let it be known, that you are free, then just try to be friends first. Often times relationships tend to have a better foundation if they are built upon friendship, and compadablity. Goodluck and may your destiny be kind.
2006-10-23 16:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt go out with a guy and like another too, so wat u should do is ask "Jake" to go with a group of friends so that he doesnt feel presured with a single date. Then after a few times of going out in a group, change to double dating, and work your way to single dating. But dont go out with Jake until u break up with ur present bf, that would complicate things and both guys would not like u if they found out ur with both of them. So overall, ask Jake out, break up with present bf, and go on a group hangout. good luck!
2006-10-23 16:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhh. Young love. Enjoy this time my friend, because it will never be this special ever.
A wise person once said "When you die, you don't regret the things you did. You regret the things you don't do." So just ask him.
2006-10-23 16:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by outlaw_tattoo_biker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump your boyfriend and ask the other guy out, and see what happens.
2006-10-23 16:29:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋