I am a bit sad and also confused. This girl I asked out rejected me. I try now not to make eye contact with her or talk to her whenever we cross paths but she makes eye contact all the time. Please help me explain this behavior of hers. :-)
2006-10-23 09:11:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From a girl's perspective, if she said no the answer is no. But don't let it get you down. Show her that you want to be friends with her, and just keep fishing in the sea. You'll find someone, but at the same time you'll find out if she has feelings deep down for you, because she'll see you with someone else. A little jealousy goes a long way sometimes. In the end if she just wants to be your friend, then you didn't lose anything. Do not show her that you are bothered though... it gives us ladies too much power.
2006-10-23 09:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who knows...that is sad yes, but don't let one rejection spoil it all. I guess she is looking at you because she knows you like her. Maybe she is still trying to make up her mind as to whether she could like you and be with you or not. Maybe she feels bad for hurting your feelings.
You know if I were you I would look her straight in the eye one day and ask her "why do you always stare at me when you won't go out with me? Isn't it bad enough you turned me down, now you have to stare at me and I have no idea why you do that?" See what she says. Maybe you should ask her why she turned you down. Is it that she is afraid? Is it that she doesn't like you or just wants to keep your relationship as a friend? I mean it's hard, but I think kids should talk to one another. There is nothing worse than not knowing right? So why not ask one more question and get the answer you are looking for.
There are times when I was young I wish someone would have told me that too, and given me the courage to be direct too...it probably would have saved me a lot of grief and I would have felt a lot better knowing rather than never knowing.
2006-10-23 09:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol Don't know... That happened to me too. Lol I think she was just playing hard to get. I gave up and moved on. NOW she seems angry at me but I don't why... She rejected 3 three times...
2006-10-23 09:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by beau0021 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls making eye contact means nothing more than "hello" often. i make eye contact with everyone (a habit i am having to break here in germany as it's pretty much rude here to do it). a confident girl will still make eye contact even if she rejected going out with you. she rejected dating you, she didn't reject you. seperate those in your head and it may make it easier on you.
2006-10-23 09:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jenessa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feels bad for rejecting you and when when to see each other it's weird knowing that your the one that used to like her
2006-10-23 09:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because someone makes eye contact doesn't meant that they want anything from you. It can be considered common courtesy to make atleast some eye contact. Maybe she just doesn't want you to think she hates you, or she doesn't want you to hate her.
2006-10-23 09:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by Uncle Meat 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Simple...women...all women love attention. They crave attention. They notice at all times who's checking them out. The second she sees you she get's excited b/c she knows you liked her. Ignore her and she might start flirting with you a little to get your attention. If you ask her out she probably will say no again. Women become more and more predictable the older you get.
2006-10-23 09:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by X 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
maybe she changed her mind.. but even if things are like that don't ask her out again wait or her to do the first step....or maybe she liked you from the first moment but one of her friends liked you to and she ddn't do anything.. or maybe she doesn't want to be with you but she doesn't want to see you with an othr girl..we can be confusing some times
2006-10-23 09:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by athina 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
shes playing hard to get or she feels bad about rejecting her if it's realli bothering you that much try getting one of your friends whose friends with her or one of her friends whose friends with you to ask her what's up because they've been noticing that shes been doing that too u even tho she rejectied you
2006-10-23 09:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by ♥◦◊◦Brown eyed babe◦◊◦♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's playing hard to get. Ask again, you may get a different answer.
2006-10-23 09:15:06 · answer #10 · answered by RivatricHistrionic 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋