How do you know if you are in love or if its only a temporary crush.
Because I have feelings for this guy, Chris, and I've never ever had such strong feelings for a guy. I think he's also starting to like me--I'm not positive. Please... I'm sorta scared 'cause there is a 3 year age differance. Someone PLEASE help me.
2006-10-23 09:10:02 · 9 answers · asked by solonchick101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We've been out like 5/6 times. We've also shared a kiss or three.
2006-10-23 09:13:34 · update #1
Love is when u miss him
even before he leaves when you
could listen to him talk all night and
never get tired of hearing his voice
when the sound of his name
sends chills down your spine
and you see his smile
the second you
close your
eyes
2006-10-23 09:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. My suggestions to my girlfriends is to wait 3 months. If things are still strong, you are more than just twitterpated. Only after five to six dates you can not really know. Us girls get wrapped up in the feelings in the beginning and cannot honestly tell this early. Even if you knew this guy for years, unless you are in a relationship for over three months you do not know and even after that it maybe hard to tell. But guaranteed those toe curling feelings will begin to fade within the first three months in most relationships.
Never ever get intimate with someone before then. Especially with such an age difference. You are only looking for trouble. Be careful!! Older guys know what to say and all the games to play!!
2006-10-23 09:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by galbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u have butterflies when u cant stop feeling happy around this person when u sit by the phone waiting for his phone calls when u listen to all he has to say and acept anything he does lets see its a long list lol when u think about u and he being together 4 the rest of ur life hope that i been a good help good luck!!
2006-10-23 09:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not in love. Love is something that takes time to develop, you need to be in a relationship with this guy first. And no age shouldn't make a difference.
2006-10-23 09:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by sassyone575 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just know. ask yourself this, can you see this person in your life. will he be a good dad? etc.. look in the future. and if you can't then its mostly a crush. but love its like a bolt of lighting, it will hit you, and you can feel it.
2006-10-23 09:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by brandyliliy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not even in a relationship, then no you are not "in love"
Being "in love" is MUTUAL and takes TIME to develop and grow.
2006-10-23 09:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never now when you are in love because it might not be the right one
2006-10-23 09:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by allie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you're in love with someone, you will KNOW that you love there... without question. and you wont have to ask "how do you know you're in love" it will be very clear.
2006-10-23 09:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by evil_bitch_with_attitude 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont, just lust.
2006-10-23 09:12:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋