Ive come to my senses and finally dropped by boyfriend, but i think i still love him. Whenever i see him and if he talks to other girls i get extremely jealous. How can i cope with this and get over him. Pretty much, how do i stop the jealously and the void of him not being there?
2006-10-23 09:09:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't get jealous... Unless you want to be in a HARSH relationship again.
2006-10-23 09:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all dont ever even think of going back to him. Now is the perfect time to move forward with your life and make a change. You need to get out and meet as many NEW people as you possibly can, guys and girls. Make new friends, hang out with a new croud. Trust me this works, you will forget you and him ever dated. When the time is right the perfect guy will walk into your life right at the most perfect timing. I hope Iv helpped. Good luck sweetie.
2006-10-23 09:15:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time off of dating and get to know yourself. You don't want to jump into another relationship without leaning more about yourself. Also, you don't want to jump into another relationship because that won't be fair to the person you are seeing then. Also, remember that it is normal human behavior to be jealous when you see your boyfriend with another girl. But, it is a part of growing up and learning.
2006-10-23 09:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by nice_guyminnesota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always found other things to do to keep my mind occupied. Like going out with friends, joining a volunteer organization and meet new people, take a craft class at the local library. Explore new things now that you have the time, find yourself and get on with your life and enjoy yourself.
2006-10-23 09:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by puggas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should grab you girls and have I dropped my boyfirend party. Fix yourself up and treat yourself. As, far as jealousy, look at him as it is his lost for not treating you better. Have pity for them. Write down in a joural and release some of the anger. In about six months, look back on how far you have come for that harsh relationship.
2006-10-23 09:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by Tia Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find somebody else you like better, that will take care if the jealousy, as for you thinking you still love him that is just your brain playing tricks on you, if you broke it off you had to have a good reason and you are thinking you still love him because you havent found anything to fill the void that he has left...........find another person you like and go from there
2006-10-23 09:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by DEREK A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not much you can do. You did the right thing by getting out of the relationship and just remind yourself of all the horrible things that were wrong in your relationship and have pity for the other girls.
2006-10-23 09:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means your not really over him also that you still have feelings for hima nd that your not sure what you really want... when your ready the jealousy will/ might go away..... try and find something new to do...... get your mind off him and move on....
2006-10-23 09:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by lovargirl158 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats going to stop while the time goes by.. you can't do anything about it.. when you are with someone and especialy if you love him that doesn't go away very fast..time is the best doctor
2006-10-23 09:12:12 · answer #9 · answered by athina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going through what I call..withdrawl..
but you have made your decision by not being with him..
so now you have to accept the fact that he is going to flirt or date other girls..
I know that it is hard to see him with other females..but you are going to have to deal with it little by little until you really get over him
2006-10-23 09:13:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋