I ask a girl out to have a drink with me, she said ok. then I try to get her attention buy grabbing her arm cuz she was lestining to music on her headphones, then she screams at me "Don't touch me!" what is that?
2006-10-23 09:02:13 · 19 answers · asked by Spook 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How did you grab her arm ? She could have had something in her past that made her react like that. Maybe she had some abuse / control problems and your grabbing her arm just brought all that back.
2006-10-23 09:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that may be okay for u and i don't know the reasons for her actions but she needs to calm down. don't take it offensive but instead off grabbing her arm u should have tapped her shoulder or stood in front of her and try to get her attention that way. but what ever her problem is she needs to sort it out or may be she could have thought u were someone else or u were trying to man handle her.
2006-10-23 09:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by Toniesponge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Key word here.......... grabbed. Tapping her would have been better.....the last time some guy grabbed me, I damn near knocked his head off! Hey, it was reflex. but maybe she's a drama queen or just don't liked to be touched. Next time don't grab, it's more polite to lightly tap esp. because grabbing makes it seem like you're too aggressive.
2006-10-23 09:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by KryBaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt "grab" a girl, maybe you should have tapped her on the shoulder to get her attention. You invaded her personal space. If she absolutly just freaked out then shes psycho.
2006-10-23 09:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of things that could mean, none of which matter. What matters is this valuable information she just let you know. She is completely inappropriate for anything with you and you should immediately and permanently break off all contact with her and move on to a woman who is f-ed up.
2006-10-23 09:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats called a warning sign, thats should be your first and last sign from this girl, when something like this happens, you need to treat it like someone just walked in with a gun, YOU TURN AND RUN, get out, don't come back, flee the scene, vamanos , scram, get the heck out of Dodge. do your self a favor, and don't call her, move on!
2006-10-23 09:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time of the month and crazynesss as well, when you invite her back to your place, lock away all the bread knives and sleep with 1 eye open....
2006-10-23 09:06:59 · answer #7 · answered by jjjjulieeeelovellyyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that she doesn't want you to touch her. I don't think it's a good move grabbing a girl's arm. That upsets me too.
2006-10-23 09:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Apparently the girl does not appreciate being touched in that manner....maybe you were rougher than you intended to be
2006-10-23 09:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a crazy woman.
By the way, what was she doing with head phones during a date?
2006-10-23 09:03:56 · answer #10 · answered by orangecrate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋