We see each other about every two weeks (one on one), (live in seperate towns), txt each other practically everyday, tell each other everything, would rather meet up with me than her mates, etc...
Have spoken to her about it possibly going further, but she says we'll just remain close friends, but yet she does everything I've mentioned above.
Any explanations?
p.s. she does get annoyed when I mention girls that have caught my attention....
2006-10-23 09:00:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everything was fine the week before, we were in touch as usual (we usually txt each other everyday)and we're very close. She txt this afternoon saying how she couldn't even touch another bloke when she went clubbing on Saturday. Said she didn't know what was going on with herself. When I asked her to meet up this evening for a quick drink she said no. Then she said she wasn't sure when we'd meet again and that she'll get in touch. I asked what the matter was, she told me that she's got a lot on her mind and don’t want me to contact her.
What’s going on?
p.s. we didn't argue or fall out over anything
2006-10-23 09:01:13 · update #1
she likes you but does not want to admit this to herself as she is worried of losing a great relationship!!i have been in a situation similar to this....just give her breathing space and she will soon come to you..she will start to miss you and realise her feelings for you...good luck xx
2006-10-23 09:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lydia K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I guess you only cross over the friendship line if you two kiss or get intimate. my best friend is a guy and like you - we text every day chatting and catching up on the news. Ive never felt uncomfortable around him so not sure what the signs are. Signs she has feelings I guess would be if she gets jealous or odd when you mention other women. Is she over possessive of you? As for the being used - I dont think shes using you if she'd be prepared to blow out her mates in favour of meeting you and stuff. however - unless she has made it blatantly obvious that she is into you as more than a friend I wouldnt worry about it - you could just be stressing over nothing! xx
2016-05-22 01:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry mate! I can't answer that for you! You'll need a female to answer that one 'cos I don't understand the buggers!
I had a female friend like that once! She was gorgeous and we'd been friends for ages and the signals etc were exactly as you and your female buddy! We went for a few drinks and she came back to mine for coffee! We chatted for hours and it got reaslly late. I asked her if she wanted to stay and she agree. She went to the loo and then went into my room - I went to brush me teeth and knocked on my bedroom door to get my clock. I said I'd sleep on the sofa. She said "don't be silly! We're mates!" I thought that was fair enough. I pulled the quilt back to find she was totally naked. We had a little bit of a cuddle and I started kissing her neck - and caressing her! She noticed that I was enjoying this - if ye know what I mean!!!! OOOOOPS!!
I haven't seen her for two years! It's caused me so much anguish!
Be careful mate! You might lose a good friend - or gain a great lover! It's risky!
Just ask her and see how she responds!
2006-10-23 09:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by Fin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main thing is that from what you've said that you've mentioned something about becoming more than just friends and she pretty much shot down the idea, right? Everything else is just mininal details. She's not interested if you in that way.
2006-10-23 09:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you, but she doesn't want to ruin the friendship. Ask her, I think you'd make a good couple, tell her not to be afraid and take a chance with you.
2006-10-23 09:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like she is very confused and she is asking for some space so that she can think about her feelings. I would say that she likes you but she is scared of losing your friendship as it could go pear shaped
2006-10-23 09:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by JandG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say she likes you but is afraid to take it further or is confused by her feelings for you. Give her space, hopefully she'll come round.
2006-10-23 09:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds confused. it looks like from the information that you have given that she does like you but does not want to take it to the next level.
she is trying to distance herself from you till she thinks the feelings have gone back to the just good friends that you had. the question is are you going to do as she asks and not contact her till she is ready or are you going to try and find out wat is the reason behind it.
good luck with whichever one you choose
2006-10-23 09:53:42 · answer #8 · answered by vexon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's playing games to see how you react. Keeping you on the line, she likes the chase, to think she can have you whenever she wants you.
2006-10-23 09:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you must tell her how you feel - maybe even by text if she doesn't want to hear from you. If she doesn't want to know move on pal and get some biff elsewhere!
2006-10-23 09:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by Seb Thwapps 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋