Ladies, in order to stave off any incompatability, I want to know if my girlfriends sex drive is high because our relationship is only 6 months old or if it will stay that way because she naturally has a high drive. My ex-wife had a high drive until about a year into the marraige. She said she was happy and I was more than good in bed so lets just assume that part is ok... but her sex drive dropped off the earth. I asked her recently if it had anything to do with me and she said that it is usually low and that she assumed that we would have little sex after a while because that is her body. So, how do I ask my new girlfriend what her normal sex drive is. I really don't want to spend another 10 years with a room mate. Yes, I know there is more to life than sex, but I want a woman who is wild (I am deliberatly looking for it) and I think I should be up front about it. I don't think it's wrong to look for compatability.
2006-10-23 08:54:55 · 6 answers · asked by Big_D_4fun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A note to Phillimami... Your a taker... would YOU ask if you were bringing anything to the table to offer a man... I earn 7 figures from investments and I have 2 degrees. I have a home in Hawaii that is just for fun. I think I can provide!!!!
2006-10-23 09:20:33 · update #1
DON'T ASK!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-23 08:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by sebi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's wrong to look for compatibility either. I see no problem with just coming out and telling her what you told us. You have a high sex drive, that your marriage in part failed because your ex-wife assumed that after marriage there would be little sex. There is no way your girlfriend can guarantee that her sex drive will never change, but then neither can you. Your ex-wife was deceptive whether it was intentional or not and you are trying to insure that the next one will last. Good luck.
2006-10-23 16:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a woman's sex drive can change over time, like you men. nothing ever stays the same, i am afraid. my sex drive has gone down a lot since i became a mother and i am still just in my teens. before that i was hotter than a fire cracker and wanted sex all most all the damned time. i am kinda glad that i am not so wild as i once was. like you say, there IS more to life than s - e - x.
how can you ask her? if you are intimate you should be able to ask her any thing. but just be aware though that things can all ways change in the future, and probably will.
2006-10-23 16:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by Denise B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and stop being soo shallow. What you should be concerned with is if you can provide for someone. Another question is look deeper...how do you really know you are really satisfying. You may be the one with the problem.
2006-10-23 15:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by phillymami 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just come out and ask her...
2006-10-23 15:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pull her hair in public, if she gives you a dirty look, FRIGID!! DANGER WILL ROBINSON DANGER!!! If she says "DON"T, but smiles,,, well you can figure it out....
2006-10-23 15:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋