why is it when you are really in to someone they lose interest quickly and when someone is really in to you you lose interest really quickly whats the whole do about the chase does anybody else get this
2006-10-23 08:35:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we desire the unattainable.
2006-10-23 08:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by m deal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for me, if someone is too forward and pushy, they're gonna scare me off a bit... which seems to be all the more true for women scaring men off! I enjoy being single, I enjoy the flirtatious phase of getting to know someone without getting too involved, relationships have to evolve over time. I have my own life, so if I'm gonna get involved with someone I need to slowly adjust and let them into my life gradually. For me it's not so much a question of "the chase" but a matter of showing just enough interest to keep things progressing without getting too caught-up and overwhelmed by it. When one person shows a lot more interest than the other, it throws the whole thing out of balance... when you both play off each other's reaction and just let it unfold without either one pushing anything, you don't have to step outside your comfort zone, your comfort zone simply expands to include them.
2006-10-23 15:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the people you are into are too good looking for you and vice versa for people into you (or your standards might be too high)
2006-10-23 15:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are hunters and searchers/gatherers. Its a primitive anthropological thing.
2006-10-23 15:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that's part of the game, silly rabbit.
2006-10-23 15:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I HATE the chase!
2006-10-23 15:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
honestly
well it never happened with me
2006-10-23 15:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you like it?
2006-10-23 15:36:59 · answer #8 · answered by dj nkro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no idea...
2006-10-23 15:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋