Hi Everybody !
It might be stupid to ask but i would really like to get answers from people all over the world
Would you marry to a girl who is not virgin ??
And if you don't have a girl friend yet, would you get one who is not virgin ?
Does it matter or not ?
Thanks in advance,
John
2006-10-23 08:25:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Hey girls, does it matter to give up your virginity to someone who is not even your boyfriend ?!
2006-10-26 00:53:36 · update #1
Hi John, I'm not a male obviously hehe but if having a girl with self respect and values is important to you, you shouldn't settle for a girl that has no boundries and doesn't see sex as a very personal and loving act.
There are virgins still believe it or not, and you don't need to go to church or just ethnic cultures to find one. You can of course date a non- virgin but you should be choosy that she doesn't fall into bed with ever guy that looks her way, as trust is important in relationships and people who see sex as something mechanical are easily tempted to cheat. Btw I think if given the choice between a virgin and non virgin all things being equal..it's a no brainer that a guy would prefer a virgin.
I disagree with you Gucci Girl. My bf is experinced and has had ex gfs who were not virgins. When I met him, he wasn't on the look out for a virgin and I certainly didn't stamp virgin on my forehand.
Instead of thinking guys that respect virgins are lacking in the bedroom and want control, how about the fact that a guy that dates a virgin has to wait a very long time before he gets to sleep with her, therefore having to develop respect for her mind and communication and friendship and genuine love, whereas a guy that wouldn't stick around for a virgin and only wants girls that puts out are only interested in sex!
So hey ladies how about you don't give away your power by giving your body up so quickly and you just may get a senstive guy that will treat you like a princess instead of a free hooker.
2006-10-23 13:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by xanadu88 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well There Are Different Cultures , We Have Different Religions And Many Different Things.For Someone Who's Religion Is Christianity Having Sex Is Like Drinking A Cup Of Coffee And They Don't Care About Being Virgin Or No. But In all Asian Countries Including Iran Cause I Lived There And I Know , Girls Cant Get Married If They Not Virgin And If They Want To Get Married They Have To Have An Operation To Get Their Virginity Back So People Should Have There Own Rights To Choose If They Want To Have Sex Before Marriage Or Not. But I Would Personally Marry A Non Virgin Girl.
2006-10-24 02:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by BehnaM uk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was not a virgin when I met my husband, I even had a son and I would consider myself a good catch. I cater to my husband, I work full time, I do all laundry, cleaning, chores, banking, pay the bills, homework with the kids.... I ask nothing from my husband except to maintain my car. I have never cheated or even thought of another man. So I don't think all women who have past experiences are useless, some of us are still good women and worth marrying. We all make choices in our lives, maybe not always the best choices... So I am glad my husband loves me and gave me a chance to prove, I am a wonderful person, no matter my past choices.
2006-10-23 08:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi John
I think more than 95% of American boys and girls have been ****** many times before age of 13 and that is way they don't care about virginity. I think to have nice family it is good to have sex with someone which is virgin and stay away from girls who been ****** by black people. But a girl that been ****** by so many people her mind is also been ****** and couldn't be a reliable person for a family.
They can't be honest and can not stay with any one. So that is why they get depression after 25 years old and they always change their loved one for sex. Most of western people suffering from depression because of screwed mind. They wouldn't have a family and every thing is based by being a good slave. The truth is civilized slavery that been set by their government.
2006-10-23 22:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by mehran b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAKE UP AND JOIN THE 21ST CENTURY!!!
Unless you are a virgin yourself and you are a very Religious person, then whether a girl is a virgin or not should not be of the utmost importance in choosing a girlfriend. How about choosing her because she makes you happy whe you are together, she is a very nice person with a wonderful personality, you think of her whenever you are apart, she treats you as good as you treat her,
THESE ARE THE THINGS THAT ARE IMPORTANT!!!!
2006-10-23 13:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by lildragonlexi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it matters. I was a 28 year old virgin when I got married. It was a wonderful gift to my husband. Sadly to many people are too weak to wait. I am teaching my sons that sex is for married people only. And sex before marriage is wrong. There is no need for it before marriage.
2006-10-23 11:26:03 · answer #6 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi john
in this day and age you'll be lucky to find a girl who's a virgin mate.
girls are having sex at such an early age now.
it doesnt matter if a girl is a virgin or not as long as you love each other.
2006-10-25 03:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by rosierotweiller 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is going to sound kinda of, well, mean, but why should someone's virgin starus(or lack thereof) regulate if you marry them? if you're with a girl whose not a virgin and the two of you love each other enough to consider marriage, than by all means go for it! if you don't you could end up regretting it for the rest of your life!
and besides if she's in love with you enough to want to marry you, and you're not the one she lost her virginity to, she's probably regretting what happened between her and the other person.
2006-10-23 12:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by Duelen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men who want to marry virgins are men who have little experience, that way they don't have to measure up to anyone. NOW, the men who do have some sexual experience marry virgins so that they can get their fantasies because they will tell the virgin "this is the way sex is done"
To me it is all about control.
HEY LADIES, DON'T LET THE MEN TAKE CONTROL OF YOU!!!
2006-10-23 09:26:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im going to get married in Dec and me and my fiance have had sex before... There is nothing wrong with not being a virgin!
2006-10-23 09:04:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋