2006-10-23 08:21:00 · 12 answers · asked by baby_gurl1492 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have a place you can go to, pack up your belongings when he's not around and leave. Leaving when he is not around is far better and you'll be able to get out of the house with no problems.
2006-10-23 08:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by blueeyeskenai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not stuck in a relationship whether you are married or not. You have free will and can walk away anytime you want to. Just go! As for his temper, you have a choice of leaving when you know he won't be around--maybe take a little of your things out at a time--or if you are leaving and he puts his hands on you call the police and press assault charges--or--tell the cops that you are in a volatile relationship that you want to leave and you feel you would be harmed and arrange for an escort to pick up your belongings. Sounds as though I am experienced right? Well I am. Get out and don't look back. Your life will be that better for it.
2006-10-23 15:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live with him, find a place to stay contact the local police and have them present when you get ALL your stuff out of the house. You do not need a reason to go back! If you aren't living together, take him to a public place and explain that you don't want to have anymore contact with him. Arrange to meet friends or family after this meeting just in case his "temper" decides to kick in. If he won't leave you alone, get a restraining order and if there is a situation where he hurts you, go to the police so that you have it on record. Good Luck
2006-10-23 15:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by ntlgntbtch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in an extremely bad relationship with a voilent man i was scared for my life i managed to get awayi left when he went for work but these voilent sorts r pretty keyed in to wat is going on around them he even asked me if i was going to be here when he got home but i couldnt move quick enough once he had left it was the most scariest thing u got to be strong and just do it. noone should be treated like that. i couldnt of done it without support. i had it all arranged so that i was out within an hour after he left. i packed wat i could the night before stuff that he wouldnt notice and i have been a free woman since. Do it girl just get out!!!
2006-10-23 15:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the courage 1st to tell him you want out. and when you do it make sure you have a safe person with you ( in another room or very close by) that will be willing to help you if the situation becomes physical on his part.
2006-10-23 15:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by valerie v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just drop him, if he has a temper there is no way to do this in a kind way, atleast in his eyes, drop him like he is hot and get a restraining order.
2006-10-23 15:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by niklas h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave and have no contact with the person. If he continues to harrass you, get a restraining order.
2006-10-23 15:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the Battered Womens Shelter in your area. Don't have one? Call your Emergency Room, they have all the contacts you will need. GOOD LUCK, GRUMPY.
2006-10-23 15:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by GRUMPY1LUVS2EAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I know he won't b back 4 a while 2-4 hours, get some help from family & friends & get out, DON"T LOOK BACK!!!!!
2006-10-23 15:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by Just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to do it immediatly. break it off with him and if he gives u any problems or u feel threatened get a restraining order. simple and affective.
2006-10-23 15:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋