we were together for 3-4 months . the first month was fun . but i could see it was going nowhere .So i left hom.. well i went through hard times thought i wanted him back, so i let him move in stateing to him we need to go slow not just jump in.he just jumped in . well i want him gone. to the point i am secretly trying to get my friends to take him...and to make it even harder we went out last weekend and i ran into my best friend from school . i havent seen him since school . and i was so in love with him ..well needless to say i went home with him .. uh oh .... well now i want to see him all the time but still with the old guy ..please what would you do ?
2006-10-23 07:52:17 · 20 answers · asked by sspoiledbratt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just leave cold turkey
2006-10-23 07:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you let him jump in after telling him no? If you want out, walk out. Why is it so hard to figure out? Walk away. Tell him it's done. If you weren't sure from the start, and had hesitations, why let him move in to begin with? Use your head, not your heart. Heart's can say things that our minds don't always agree with. Women thinking with their hearts is almost as dangerous as men thinking with their southern heads.
IT DOESN'T WORK!
Put yourself first, find out who you are first. Don't go from one to another. Take some time for you. Kick out the old one, or move out. Make a life for yourself. Then think about another man.
2006-10-23 07:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Allycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up! lol If you don't love him which U obviously don't otherwise you wouldn't have went home with the other guy, LEAVE HIM ALREADY! Kick his @ss out already! quit being so easy jeezzzzzzzzz..... Sorry for being so rude, But sounds to me U have issues as well..... Can't make up your mind can you?
2006-10-23 07:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what is so special about this situation where you can't just tell him that you don't want to be with him anymore and that he needs to start looking for a different place to live?
2006-10-23 07:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, dump the old one before anything got any further. Your leading him on, which is terrible and your leading on the guy you do like. Yikes, get out of there quick girlfriend.
2006-10-23 07:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by savanna m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's not the one, and move on. Erase his number from your phone and take down pictures. Don't enable yourself to stumble over the same rock twice
2006-10-23 07:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a real nowhere Man,
Sitting in his Nowhere Land,
Making all his nowhere plans
for nobody.
Doesn't have a point of view,
Knows not where he's going to,
Isn't he a bit like you and me?
Nowhere Man, please listen,
You don't know what you're missing,
Nowhere Man, the world is at your command.
2006-10-23 07:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by Jet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's simple, dump him and tell him he couldn't even give you one simple thing....tell him you asked him to go slow and he didn't and you can't take it anymore, it's not what you want.
Hope this helps, Good LUck!
2006-10-23 07:55:46 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you should have broken it off with the guy thats living with you hun secondly got him outta your house then coulda renewed romance with other guy if its true he would wait and understands
2006-10-23 07:55:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have yoyr cake and eat it too. Choose who you want, and cut the other guy loose.
2006-10-23 07:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋