Is that love or is that something else using the name of love?
2006-10-23 07:50:58 · 15 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obsession.
2006-10-23 07:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is subjective, so it could technically be love, since it's an intangible conception of the human psyche, and differs for everyone. I know some people who stay in/persue nothing but love-hate relationships because they get off on that sort of emotional turbulence, it's what they're accustomed to, and it's the only way they can function and deep down, be content.
Love of any sort will hurt. It's not perfect, because humans aren't perfect. Think about the love between parents and children; there's a lot of pain there... arguments, fights or flights, distance, inner turmoil, and these people are bonded via *blood*. Why do people expect romantic relationships to be all rainbows and rosebuds? From the moment a person asks/consents to becoming another's SO, they simply have a verbal contract (if you will) to be there for each other in certain ways; they don't magically morph into un-erring unicorns.
2006-10-23 07:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by Leena Rosen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lost love makes people unhappy most of the time. True love is never lost though. Thats what it makes people unhappy.
2006-10-23 07:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
many types of love. Being in love is one of the most violent, most insane, most delusive and most TRANSIENT of passions; and when people have to promise (marriage) that they will remain in this excited, abnormal and exhausting condition continuously until death do them apart - it can perfectly lead to unhappiness. Obsessive love is also an unhappy one.
2006-10-23 07:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by gala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A selfish love. Love can have its ups and downs, but for the most part you should feel 'elevated'. As in happy. You should put each other first in a relationship.
2006-10-23 07:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by theophilus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't and shouldn't make someone unhappy. Its not love hun just an imitation
2006-10-23 07:54:02 · answer #6 · answered by K@t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have that kind of love. i wish i knew..... i love my husband so much i can't leave him but i am not in love with him. he is my best friend and i would leave him if he would let me. he just gets so sad when i have told him. i wish i could go. i think i am in love with someone else,,,, just feel stuck and sad but don't want to hurt anyone.
2006-10-23 07:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by jooje@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sure isnt love at all! If one really loves a person, you would do anything in your power to see that person happy.
2006-10-23 07:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by laChick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't supposed to make someone unhappy its suppose to be joyous and happy, that's not love that's pain and hurt their causing you.
2006-10-23 07:53:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
not love. love shouldnt make you unhappy.
2006-10-23 07:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Mai Tai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋