i am 26 years old now,....before 7 years i was pregnant and my husband told me is very soon to have children....so i did abortion...:( i cryed too much...and i crying and now...now i cant have children,i was all doctors and they saying same diagnostic....
2006-10-23 07:47:45 · 11 answers · asked by andrea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
NO NEED TO WORRY YOU ARE STILL 26 YEARS AND GOD MAY BLESS YOU CHILD. OTHERWISE YOU CAN ADOPT CHILD.
2006-10-23 15:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please let me know, Andrea, whether your uterus is still there or has it been removed during the abortion.
If your uterus is intact, then you can activate it. Go to a park nearby your area. Please walk barefoot on the grass in the morning when the dew is fresh. Walk for five minutes. Please sit on the grass facing east. Early morning sun's rays have plenty of therapeutic energies. With the little finger of your right hand and the thumb hold the left and right nostrils. Take off the little finger, slowly breath in and close. Keep the breath for a few seconds and let it out through the right nostril. Do this for 5 minutes.
Take a spread and spread it on the ground. Lie on this in a relaxed manner. By holding the knee with the palm of the both hands, bring this upto your abdomen slowly. If you cannot bring this totally, then do not worry. Do it to that extent only. Similarly do it with the left legt. Do this for ten times in a comfortable way.
After ten times, lie down in a relaxed manner for 5 minutes. Now hold both the knees by both the hands and do as said above for ten time.
You will have to do the above for nearly 30 days. Please do not do this during your monthly period time.
Your uterus and fallopean tubes would get activated. By the way if there is any Yoga school, please try to join the same.
For getting pregnant, you must indulge in the sexual activity from the 7th day after the monthly period till 14th day.
2006-10-24 04:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling pity for u, but u have to find a solution as well, whole life is there which u have to live, its in ur hands that u want to spend it by crying for whatever happened in past or u want to live happily by finding a new way to live ur life. whatever happened, u cant change it now, so, discuss it with ur husband(afterall he is the only one who stopped u 7 yrs ago), so if there is no such treatment which can solve ur problem then definetly u should go for adoption and try to give love and good food, Education, shelter to that child. That way u can fulfill ur dream and u will be a proud human being.
2006-10-23 16:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by Gold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no its sad dear u should not go 4 that abortion is bad dear,now wt 2 do i think there will be sm solution definately . u can try 4 test tube baby or u can try 4 serogate mother try 2 get in ur own family did u get me wt i mean, prepare any one in ur family to have u n ur hubbys baby in her tummy 4 nine months every thing is possible dear that is the only way u can get ur own child if u want othrewise u can adopt a newborn babay .all the best.
2006-10-23 15:10:30 · answer #4 · answered by jagrati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really unfortunate. It is not very clear what your problem is. If normal pregnancy is ruled out, can't you even have invitro-fertilisation (test tube baby)? If reputed gynaecologists have all replied in the negative, possibly your uterus is unfit for conception. The problem might lie elsewhere too. Anyway, if you can't have it, accept the reality. Think of other alternatives like adoption or a surrogate mother if you want children desperately.
2006-10-23 15:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) You have to adopt - no other way to have your own.
2) Divorce current husband and marry one who has children, but no wife OR children's mother.
3) Too late to go back - Stop Crying and Face what TODAY has to offer. It might by too late to sue the abortion person for ruining you - even if you sue and win you still can't have kids but you can stop that person from ruining others.
2006-10-23 15:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by Danny C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange are the ways of GOD. Having the abortion has left you unable to have children so you are bemoaning your fate…have you ever thought, that maybe, just maybe, had you given birth chances are that you may have lost your life. Perhaps God in His Wisdom knew that you were not structured to be able to have a child. Do you know how many women lose their lives to childbirth??? Maybe you are one of the lucky ones that God saved. Try to accept the will of God and everything will be fine.
2006-10-23 16:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:( You have my sympathies. If your body is no longer able to have a child, have you considered the possibilty of adopting? I know there are many children out there that are hoping for a loving mother like you.
best wishes
2006-10-23 14:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by daisyk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u believed on god pray for it. My brother had this prblm. He done lot of things but there is no result he get. One my relative told him go to sidhhivinayak temple & pray for it ( it called navas in marathi ) So i suggest you that if u tired & u looking for good result go to siddhivinayak ( Dadar )
2006-10-23 15:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by rajiv3112 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you hubby is irresponsible. He dosent wants to be responsible dad. He is a psycho. childrens are angels.
2006-10-27 00:44:43 · answer #10 · answered by Zakir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋