I meet this guy about a month ago, he calls me everyother day and he has been asking me out but he hadn´t gonne out, until thursday, we went for lunch and we had a great time. When we said goodbye he got out of the car gave me ahug and told me to keep in touch.But then he hasn´t called since then. I think he likes me but why is his behavior this strange? So what do you think? He was really nice and really sweet but I´m confused.
2006-10-23 07:44:55 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is strange is that he tells you to keep in touch in stead of saying that he will call you. If he was serious about seeing you again, he would have definitely made a plan with you. He is a strange man. He is giving you the double message of "Come here; Go away". Don't waste anymore time thinking about him. He's playing games. Just move on.
2006-10-23 07:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by danaluana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Keep in touch" are not the words a man uses if he is interested. Call me, that was fun, etc. mean that. He put all that effort into calling you before so obviously he has no problem picking up the phone. To call everyother day for a month and suddenly stop? Even if he was busy he called before so that excuse is out. Sounds to me that he is in a relationship and was able to squeeze you in for just lunch. Now that he has seen you, you would ask when are you going to do it again. Then he would have to be evasive and as you would have questions. I'd say forget it and if he calls down the road say forget it. If its really bothering you call and get it over with. Don't go thinking it was you as you were obviously good enough to talk on the phone with and pursue. If he was the guy for you he would have called.
2006-10-23 08:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by jackson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a call and ask how he is doing. Tell him you are calling to make sure he did not fall off the earth and see where it goes from there. Could be he is busy working and tired out when he gets home or it could be he is not interested BUT at least this way you know where you stand.
2006-10-23 07:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is particulary shy. Having plucked up the courage to actually ask someone out that he really likes (you) and finally done it, he doesn't know what happens next. Maybe he has never got to a second date because his shyness gets in the way.
Be gentle with him.
Good Luck
2006-10-23 07:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by Treat Infamy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personaly I think his intensions are to be respectful of what he thinks you want and he fears rejection, it's a male ego thang, it took you a little while to agree to go out with him, which is good... most first dates move a little faster... so I think he is thinking that you may not carefor him, he is afraid to contact you as he is afraid you may very well reject him, so... he left the ball in your court! The first date is really a bad first impression cause people are nervouse and not relaxed, I think he is just nervouse
2006-10-23 07:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are visually driven and he may have had a different mental visual of you. Then when he saw you in person, your body language, how you dressed, your maturity level, your attitude, eye contact, on & on...
He may have re-assessed / reevaluated you and decided that you don't fit the profile of exactly what he was looking for, after all. Don't be hurt by it, just move on and see that it just wasnt' a match.
2006-10-23 07:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well either you can give up on him, since he seems so confusing or if you feel like you deserve him. CLAIM YO MAN! by that i simply mean give him a call. why not, who know's what he's thinking. he said keep in touch. that's kind of weird, but who knows. Good Luck!
2006-10-23 07:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He told YOU to keep in touch. So maybe he thinks it's your turn. I wouldn't waste my time on a guy who thinks in terms of reciprocation because you're never gonna know where you stand with him.
I dated a guy like that - told me to keep in touch - I haven't seen him since June and don't know where he is and really don't care. I'm too busy for nonsense.
2006-10-23 07:49:42 · answer #8 · answered by theophilus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately by getting together he realized some things about you that he was not interested in but being a nice guy he is not going to continue to call you.
2006-10-23 07:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by John A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him & find out. Maybe he wants to know if you're still interested & he's waiting for you to call him.
Go for it, if not, at least you had a nice date, good luck!
2006-10-23 07:46:46 · answer #10 · answered by lynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋